I am the only girl in a big group of guys. Were all homies and all chill together a lot, a few of the guys do like me and have tried to hook up with me but I didn't want to ruin the friendships. Now I am dating one of their friends and they all say I'm too good for him and all got very jealous and admitted being jealous. One of them even ask me not to kiss my boyfriend in front of him because it would be weird so I don't. So in a way I'm not myself when were together because I can't kiss my boyfriend in front of my guy friends. We all still hang out and chill a few times a week. Now my friends are saying that they can't hang out with me and my boyfriend together because we act weird and it bothers them. But its ok for us to hang out with them when were not together which I don't get. I honestly think we don't act different at all so I am very confused about the whole thing. Am I doing anything wrong or is it my guy friends? What do I do?
Its definitely your friends. They're just simply jealous because every time they see you and your boyfriend together, it probably reminds them that they can't have you. Don't let these things destroy your relationship. If they don't like seeing you and your boyfriend together then hang out separately. If not. Maybe they aren't much of friends as you think. Because friends should accept you and whoever your with. You might be more of their crush than their friend. Don't let em fool ya! And try not to listen to the things that they might say about your boyfriend because it may not be true.