There is this girl at work that said she had feelings for me over Christmas break and we got close but she had a boyfriend and claimed to be breaking up with him but she ended up pushing me away and ever sense it has been pretty chaotic because I do have feelings for her but I try to just be a friend to her and she is scared because of her boyfriend. She doesn't call or text me but when I talk to her she really talks to me and we have fun together until her boyfriend comes up then she goes into a depressed mode.
She claims that we are just "friends" but the other day at work as I was talking about prom with another guy and how I was going with another girl she kept smirking and looking at the ground subtly shaking her head and then out of the blue she said she had to go do something (it was just an escape attempt)
What should I do I really want to be with her but I feel she keeps her boyfriend out of comfort at school because she is shallow and really scared about change. Does she have feelings? How can I get her to open up? Should I stop talking to her even though I work with her? Maybe make our schedules different? Any advice will help!
I think. That if she was open enough to you about HER feelings you should just be pretty straight with her too. When you and her are having the casual conversation. Slide into telling her how you feel. Its kinda obvious she likes you because if she didn't, she wouldn't hang around you at all or try her "escape attempt". I think that she might be scared to break up with her boyfriend because she still needs to figure herself out. This is where you can bring out your feelings and assure her of your opinion so she knows.
So in whole, just talk to her and tell her how you feel. I know its easy to say then do, but maybe just tellin' her would be right. Be more then a friend and make her feel comfortable. If she still doesn't get it. Then its okay that you two are friends.
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