My boyfriend says I depend on him for everything like he's my father and by the way my father wasn't there for me. We have a son so there are times when I need him but sometimes I need him for myself. He do anything for me. But I don't want to depend on him for everything.
Focus on you. Go to self help in the book store and build your brain and communication. make yourself better and more mentally stronger, that will make you more independent. and thus you will pull away and he will pull towards you and he will look to you for advise.. good?