I dated a man for 4 months, I broke up with him, and we've remained friends for the past year. He was completely "in love" with me as he said, and sometimes we fooled around, our friendship was never completely platonic. Now he has a girlfriend which he lives with. He still calls me, but doesn't tell her he's hanging out with me when we meet up for an occasional lunch.
He is still friends with some of his other ex's, and he often hangs out with them and his new girlfriend but not with me. He says he would feel uncomfortable, and I don't know why. Why am I an exception? Sometimes I think if I let him, he would cheat on her with me. But he swears she's the best thing that's ever happened to him. If he's happy with her, why is he acting so weird about being my friend. I can be just friends, but I feel like it's shady the way we sneak around to just hang out. I'm going crazy, does anyone have any advice? I need a objective point of view.
Well if you did the dumping, he probably never got over you. He's making the effort to move on with his life, but if you stay in the picture he won't be able to apparently.