Stuck in between!

I honestly think you should wait till you get to spend time with the guy in the army and then figure out which one you like more because I know the guy I wanna spend the rest of my life with is states away from me.

Yep, decide which one you like better - don't play them both! Well, unless you are honest with them that there's another guy in your life and you aren't ready to be fully committed.

The first question would be: Do you like either one more than the other - or is it just a matter of proximaty?