Here is this girl who's my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend who he has told me how much he used to care about & was gonna get married with. They've been together for 4 years & she broke up with him around 4 months ago. Then, my boyfriend met me and we've been together for 2 months now. He has talked with his best friend about me before he asked me out because he wanted to make sure I'm the only person he cares about now. Later on, he found out that his ex-girlfriend broke up with him because she got a new boyfriend & he said he hated that girl so much now. Yet, that girl started calling him last month & tried to talk with him. He talked with her once & told me that he wouldn't even pick up the phone if he knew it was her. Anyway, that girl has very good relationship with my boyfriend's sister. His sister would tell that girl my boyfriend still loves her when we're together already. Recently, my boyfriend's sister asked my boyfriend to call his ex to talk with her, & he called. He knew I wouldn't like it because he asked me not to be mad about it before he told me that. So what came to my mind was: you said you're gonna call me back in 10 mins, but you didn't because you're on the phone with your ex. More importantly, you knew that I wouldn't be happy about that but you still did it! Is she that important? i understand that they can be friends only even when they talk. What bothers me is that, if he would hate a song (he'd change the station whenever it's played on the radio) because it reminds him of that girl, why would he wanna talk with her? What's that which he could talk about with her? That's a person who has hurt him so badly. my ex-bf who hurt me badly still calls me from time to time. I wouldn't pick it up because it's too hard. Plus, my current boyfriend doesn't like it. He actually told me:"you'd better don't talk to him, or else I'll be mad. " so I don't pick up my-ex's calls. I think I'd feel a bit better if my boyfriend told me his ex called him & he picked up instead of he calling his ex. I totally understand that it doesn't mean he's cheating or he still likes that girl even if they talk, yet, emotionally, I can't help feeling bad because I was cheated on by my ex 2-year ago(the one who I don't answer his calls now). He actually still liked his ex when he's with me & he ended up cheating on me. I know they are 2 different people, but at the same time, they're very much alike in many ways, so I'm scared. Everything's going fine in the current relationship, and my boyfriend does seem to be serious about it too. Yet, the problem is, my ex-bf seemed to be serious about the relationship too when I was with him. He even wanted to get married with me, yet, he actually still liked his ex-girlfriend! I don't understand how people can do things that are so different from what they say. I don't know if I should believe that my current boyfriend really loves me or not. I don't want to be a replacement of anyone. It'll be too hard for me to have to go through all those things again.
What should I do? I feel like I'm going to become crazy.
Update: I don't know what I should do with my boyfriend's sister. I believe I am nice & friendly to her. My boyfriend said she likes me too. Otherwise, she wouldn't talk with me at all. So I don't understand why it seems like she wants my boyfriend to get back with that girl.
7 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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