Okay so I'm seeing this guy and we are getting pretty close. Him and I have this friend(dana) but he's known her longer then me. They are really good friends and they hang out a lot. She is a really flirty girl. They hang out alone and now he is going to her cottage, I trust them but I still worry and well I'm jealous. What do I do?Please give me some advice. This is killing me because I like him so much :(
PureFury
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
If he wants to cheat on you then there really isn't anything you can do about it. You can't control him. Don't think about it too much, and don't start an argument about something that hasn't happened yet. Wait till after, and ask him one time. And I mean one time, because if he didn't do anything and you pester him about it, he will get mad. If after he answers you, you get the wrong answer, or think he's lying, then try to forget about him. I know it's hard to get over someone you care about, but if you feel like you can't trust him then your relationship will go nowhere, and you might as well get out and get over him as soon as you can.
Its TOTALLY normal for you to be worried/nervous/jealous. Although you trust him that doesn't mean you should trust any girls. Some girls are just plain evil and will do anything to get what they want even if it belongs to someone else. Y is going to her cottage. Is it just the 2 of them? If its just the 2 of them and that makes you uncomfortable then you, as his gf, need to tell him that. If its a bunch of friends going, then see if you can go. Good luck!
Let him know how you feel and that you are getting a bit jealous then from there he will know that you do get jealous about him and will assure you that you don't need to get jealous but you'll always be jealous at some time but you just can't let it get to you. If he doesn't assure you that you shouldn't be jealous then he's not worth it
Well in a way him going to the cottage is a good thing. I mean you already trust him, but this puts your trust to the test. If nothing happens then you know that you can trust him through anything. If something happens then you know that he isn't the guy for you. I'm not saying anything will.....I personally think that nothing will happen. I mean I have a really close guy best friends (we're just friends trust me) and he has a girlfriend. I mean he has known me longer so we hang out together a lot more so don't worry.....it doesn't mean anything
Be as sweet as you can and as great as you can when he gets back if he did anything it will eat him alive, also watch how they act around eachother later.
Hopefully Dana would be respectful enough of you not to do anything. It's hard not to be jealous in that kinda situation so I don't think there is anything you can do but keep communication open and honest.
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