If after seeing your ex whom you still love very much & have hopes of getting back together & you sense that he still cares, also, upon leaving hugs & kisses you & then says "take care"- is this a loving sentiment or a catch ya later sentiment. I felt everything was going pretty well with our visit up until that point. That kind of set me back a little!
Loving sentiment. He loves you but might need time to him self something like that. Or he found someone else. Ask him what it is so you know. Communication is the key, good?
That is what he told me after walking out- he loved me but, wanted to be able to come & go as he pleased & he couldn't do that & be in a relationship. He told me he needed time to figure out where his life was headed. The thing that is hard to understand is we were engaged to be married- I would of thought he had that figured out when he asked me to marry him. Mind boggling to say the least. Thanks for your response. - 4 months ago
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Well he is confused and needs time alone probably to get him back together because sometimes when you fall in love we tend to spend less attention on the things we need to to keep our mind together and business because it is a intense emotion. That happened with me. So he probably feels that he just needs to get his mind back on track and if he truly loves you and wants to be with you you'll end back up together. - 4 months ago
This is the roller coaster of love. It's like why is he coming back. Why can't we just be together. You feel certain that the two of you should be together! You both have to want it! If the two of you are still talking and have things to talk about there must be some unfinished business. Don't let it drag you back in. They do call them X's for a reason! Take it one day at a time! What is meant to be Will be I promise!
That is confusing! I am kind of in the same boat with my guy. It is enough to drive a good women over the edge isn't it! I agree with RFRFRF. Communication is the key and I hope your guy will communicate in return and be prepared to be a part-time girl or not his girl at all. Sorry that does seem to be harsh just trying to help! As I have just gone through a similar situation and that is the decision I had to make.
Your right about the part-time girl - that's basically what it comes down to. He wants me in his life but, on his terms- I guess I have a decision to make but, it doesn't help when you love them so much. Thanks. - 4 months ago
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