Well, its obviously too late to get into the importance of using protection. First of all, before seeking anyone else's "advice" you have to talk to her. Than before going any further, you two must talk to your parents. There are many options out there, such as adoption, abortion, or making the ultimate sacrifice and raising the baby together. You two are so young, but unfortunately you two have to be the adults and make the decision together. Good Luck!
Also, abortion is a difficult decision to make and I can't say if this is the better option or not. I guess it would depend on how much you two care for each other, and the sacrifices you are willing to make. - 5 months ago
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She shouldn't of been having SEX anyway at 16,and did you use a CONDOM there not that much go to a rite aid and pick some up!
I think you should consult each other about it and talk to adults around you (your parents.. her parents, someone you trust) and go from there. Don't abort it. Have the baby....make out a plan. I know its easy said then do but since its your doing.. you need to take a responsibility. I think if you guys talked about it and figured out a plan that would work out for both of you...then its can't be that big of a deal. Just make sure ... you have the support from the people you DO consult.
Talk to your parents, and I suggest you have the baby. I know sex is fun and we all want it, but if your going to do it, you need to at least be prepared to have the baby. You can get married (now or later) and raise it together, have a family member (like a parent, with their consent) raise it, or even put it up for adoption. Adoption is a good option in situations like this when you can't support the child enough to give it what it needs. Good luck.
Don't be influenced by what is being said here about either keeping the baby, or terminating the pregnancy. Only the 2 of you can make that decision. You have to think long-term and the effect it will have on both of your lives. You must talk - not only to each other but to parents, etc. After the initial shock reaction, they may be a lot more supportive than you think. You have been very naive - next time use some contraception.
Take care of her so her parents don't charge you with criminal, if you want to keep it, you gotta protect you ass man. Or if you know it just a fling talk her into getting a abortion like we not ready your too young type thing. Then back off slowly. Good?
Get some advice. If you cannot talk to either set of parents, talk to your doctor who must keep it confidential. He or she may be able to refer you to someone more specialized in pregnancy advice. At the end of the day it will come down to whether your girlfriend keeps the baby or the pregnancy is terminated. Whichever decision you make, you will need help and support. Don't even think about toughing it out on your own.
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