How do you let your unaffectionate boyfriend know that you want more affection? My boyfriend and I rarely get that close to each other unless its during sex. IT would be nice if he could just hold me and cuddle with me once in a while and from time to time, I let him know that I want him to just lay with me or something but he never just does it on his own. What should I do? What should I tell him?
I would tell him straight up. Hey I feel we don't spend much time together and you don't feel appreciated. Ask him how come he doesn't do that there has gotta be a reason. Communication and patients is the key. Good?
Just be straight with him,some guys can't read the signs women give out and they need to be told. don't be shy about your needs you may find his needs are the same.
When I felt like that with my boyfriend, I just told him straight out that I would like some more affection. First I told him that I like to cuddle a lot and he didn't seem to pick up on the fact that I meant I wanted to cuddle more. After I told him, he just smiled at me and said "Why didn't you just say that in the first place? "
(Age:Under 18)
When: 7 months ago
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