Confusion. can anybody help?

No one deserves the abuse you are getting from your "boyfriend." Dump him.

Yes dump SCOTT and look for BURT or some one like him.

Scott isn't a man and does not deserve you esp. if you calls you ugly in anyway he's not respecting you, leave him and find Burt... I wish you luck and a swift kick in his johny's

Talk to Burt and let him know that you would be ready for him if he breaks up with his girlfriend for good.

You're a young girl (even if you were older), you should not have to go through that emotional, physical, sexual, and mental abuse. Whether Burt is ready for you or not, leave Scott now. He does not deserve you. Don't be hesitant to call the authorities or let the school know if he's harassing you, and (I know this might sound weird) but take pictures of any unwilling bite marks or bruises he put on you. This will help you just in case if this situation escalates.

I hope this helps, and good luck!

You should have left SCOTT ages ago.

tell scott to f*** off?

Dump Scott, you shouldn't have to put up with that sort of stuff, if he loved you he wouldn't say that. If Burt and his girlfriend break up make a move on him and try to start a relationship with him. Sounds like a great guy. You should definately try to start something with him.

Take a moment to realize what you're doing. You're staying with an asshole simply because you think you have no other options... and now that a new option pops up you're considering making a trade.

Do you see where the problem is with this?

Instead you should break up from d*** face, and take some time to learn that being alone (single) doesn't mean being lonely.

If you loved yourself enough you would never have put up with SCOTT's bad behavior (we teach people how to treat us.)

Get single, find time to heal, and definitely take some time to relearn how important you are. The more love you feel for yourself, the less sh*t you'll take from idiots like SCOTT.

READ THIS, it will change your heart! link

Then, when BURT is single, you two can live happily every after.

HUGS.

~ Robby

Dump Scott, give up on Burt, and go out with George.

Dump SCOTT. You can wait for BURT and stay his friend. Maybe date around or just chill and stay friendly with people just to get over SCOTT. You don't want to get into a new relationship right after a bad one. Relax, if BURT happens it happens, if not you can't make people's minds up for them. But DUMP SCOTT, he's nothing but a jerk, and if you ever end up in a sexual situation with a guy and you don't like what they're doing TELL THEM. They'll never know if you don't speak up. Good Luck.

Get rid of Scott regardless of if you have burt. It's better to be single than have an abusive boyfriend. If you get Burt it's just a bonus.

hmmmmmm scott seems to be a d*** there should always be bounderies in the bedroom. now burt seems to be nice but if he really wanted to be with you he would have left that girl a long long time ago but what you need to is look scott in the eye and say f*** you ha but besides the point but everyone deserves someone who treats them right and loves them for who they are and if he doesn't like ur vagina tell him to stop sleeping with you
dustin

forget ur boyfriend and get burt to forget his girlfriend and do what ever you like...
cheating is ok in this situation, or just completely forget that numb nut, and burt will get rid of that undeceive idiot

"my boyfriend calls me fat and says I need to lose weight and that my vajajay is ugly and my boobs are too bigg. and he bites to the point where I'm black and blue."

Plenty of reasons to dump him.
...
"My New Friend...but he has a girl friend that dumps him alot. What should I do? "
forget him.

Plenty of fish in the sea.

Raise up some boundaries. Scott seems cruel and abusive, emotionally and physically.
Burt already has a girlfriend that he's two-timing with you.
This is not a good scenario. At all.

What to do? Dump Scott, as quickly as you can. Forget the two-timing Burt.

Ted

Scott says those things to you not because they are true but because he can. He is abusive and if you haven't dumped him, you are basically accepting it.

I strongly urge you to take pictures of the bruising etc. Also, use your cell phone without his knowledge to record any of the abusive things he says. Show an adult at school or home that you trust. Show his mom too.

Leave Scott and made sure he stays the hell away under threat of pressing criminal charges against him for the bruising. He needs help, but it isn't gonna happen by staying with you and being able to abuse you.

Burt: He might be taking advantage of your vulnerability - because he would leave the other girl if he wanted to be with you. But he may also be down on himself a bit so he lets her dump him then take him back over and over. OR he may be a nice guy who is upset to see you so down on yourself that you take that kind of crap from another guy and while he doesn't want to leave his girlfriend or date you, he wants you to see how beautiful you are or how you deserve to be treated.

You are better off single for a bit. You have been abused and you should maybe seek some counseling or something at school or if you have parents you can ask to help you get counseling or therapy. Wait to date again until you have gotten past the part of you that accepts other's abuse.

No one is ever supposed to treat you like that.

i would recommend you to dump scott for being so mean to you ...i don't know about Burt maybe look for someone that makes you feel like a princess

Scott sounds like a ASS bad. he insults your body? that doesn't sound like love. Dump him even if its not for BURT. The thing with BURT, unless you wanna get hurt, make sure his girlfriend is out of the picture completely.

Leave him ASAP. He's abusing you. Wait for a man who makes you feel like you should, smart, sexy, and well taken care of.

Get with someone who treats you right, like you should be. Whether its burt or curt. Just f*** your scott bitch off and get with a real man.

Dump Scott. if he does this to you (calling you ugly and fat) why date him. he`s bringing you down. and making you feel bad. If Burt cares about you more, date him :)

dump SCOTT anyway he's an asshole !

Stay friends with Burt and if you guys are meant to be he knows how to find you if he wants to take it further

LEAVE SCOTT ! he's going to ruin your self esteem

Definitely Dump Scott! NOW! that's rude & disrespect
Not so soon with Burt, go with the flow

this SCOTT guy is an @$$ .. dump him and pray he stays single

Scott is a d***. Whether you wait around for Burt or not, you definitely need to get rid of Scott. Tell Burt how you feel and see what he does.

ReRead everything you just wrote. Dump Scott and wait for Burt.

Yes! Your boyfriend sounds like a total jerk! I would have dumped him ages ago! Burt sounds great!

dump scott for sure, even if you're not getting burt at the end of the day.. he sounds like a freackin asshole, how can you be with someone who disrespects you like that? if he thinks your vaja is ugly boobs too big etc, then why did he get involved with you in the first place? he's a loser let him play elsewhere

tell Scott to go f*** himself and he's a douche and find someone better. he sounds like a piece of sh*t.

I think you should wait for blurt and tell blurt that he shouldn't be in a relationship that is on and off like you shouldn't be in one that you are getting mistreated..

you should definitely! dump scott...he seems like such a d***! why the hell are you still with him if he treats you this way?
but yes I understand burt is a nice guy and everything but trust me rushing into another relationship is NOT the way to go at all. just stay single for a while and stay friends with burt...and if he breaks up with his girlfriend and both of you are single and WAY over your ex's then maybe you two could date. but for now just stay single...and don't rush into anything by your age on your thing your to young to wanting to be tied down..and I believe in fate and I believe that there is someone for everyone out there...so your perfect guy will come for now..just play the field or whatever :p lol

His a f***ing ass wipe. DUMP THIS DICK HEAD.

You don't deserve to be treated like that.This "Scott" is getting away with this because you let him.BREAK UP with that jerk.Maybe be single for awhile.Don't jump into relationship with "Burt" Just be his friend and see where things go from there.Enjoy life :) It's okay to be single. Don't sacrifice your happiness and self esteem just to have a boyfriend that treats you like trash. I've been in a abusive relationship,It's not worth it.

HELL YES! dump that jerks ass! dude you should never insult a girls PARTS. NEVER. if he is gonna say that sh*t to you you need to leave his ass, and next time burts girlfriend dumps him, make your move. if scott really loved you he'd see you as beautiful.. not fat, has an ugly vajajay, and too big boobs. if you love somone you see the goodness of them on the outside; theyre beautiful inside and out. so dump his ass for burt!

dump scott and wait for burt; or jus play it cool break up with scott and make burt ur bestfriend because friendship will make ur relationship stronger and it will make you have a better understanding with eachother, trust him with ur business. let him kno abt burt and how he treated you so tht he knos not to let this effect on yah as a couple.

Burt! And if not burt just dump scott. You do not need someone that tries to break you down all the time!

Dump Scott! No matter what dump Scott...If Bert really has feelings for you and he realise you are alone he may leave his Girlfriend for you or the next time she breaks up with him he might decides to try things with you...

Dump Scott DUH! you don't have to wait for another guy when the one you have is abusive. I mean it doesn't even matter if its mostly verbal. soon it will become even more physical.

Umm this shouldnt even be that hard. Even if BURT wasn't in the pictue you need to leave SCOTT asap. If that's how he feels about you then he has no business being with you. He's insecure and is ding everything possible to tear you down and make you insecure so he'll feel better. He wants to make you need him. Its an old abusive pattern and you need to get out now before it escalates. And I'm serious. As for BURT he seem like he could be a nice guy. I think you both need to sit down and talk to each other. Because it sounds like his girlfriend is a piece of sh*t with some issues if she's aways dumping him and then getting back with him. Well if you think there is a chance then you should let him know you like him. Who knows he might be sitting around waiting for you. Nothing good in life comes by sitting bak and waiting. You gotta get up and go after what you want sweetie. And what you deserve is to be confident happy ad feel loved and accepted by the person you're with. Take the steps. Dump that ass hole. Good luck darling!

dude scott is an asshole get rid of that jerk! he has no rights to put you down... it will make your self esteem go down and make yourself look at life differently... you need to do better and be with someone who appreciates you

i think you should dump scott...i mean he's not a keeper anyway. if you're waiting to dump scott for whenever burt's girlfriend dumps him...that's probably a really bad idea because you'll seem like you're a girl who HAS to have a guy all the time no matter how he treats you...and guys hate that. basically if you don't dump scott now you'll probably never have a chance with burt. and WHO KNOWS...if other sweet guys hear your single they could try and date you too.

Dump both of these losers. I hope this is a joke. If it's not, get out now and seriously evaluate your life and choices. You don't deserve this crap.

wtf why are you even going out with scott if he does all that? whether you go out with burt or stay single you need to get rid of a guy who treats you like that. and if burt treats you better then go out with him eventually...but right now you don't sound like you should be dating anyone. maybe you need to be alone for a while and figure out why your self esteem is so shot that you'd let a guy treat you like that. dump scott and work on yourself before you date burt.

Dump Scott and wait for Burt

DUMP SCOTT. Even if burt has a gf.
You deserve much better.

Okay sweetie, first off... you're under 18. Climb out of his bed, put your clothes back on, and RUN home! Enjoy your childhood. If you rush this part of your life, you'll miss out on the best part.

Now, dump your boyfriend, because he goes against everything a good boyfriend is supposed to be. You're not fat, your body is still changing. There's no such thing as an "ugly" vajayjay- they come in all shapes, sizes, and shades of color. It's hard enough for women to like their plumbing, you don't need him to fuel that insecurity. Your breasts are fine as well. They're just as God intended them to be. And lastly, if he's making you black and blue, it probably means you aren't even able to enjoy the sex- so why put up with that?

Take some pride in yourself, and find a boyfriend who is sweet, sensitive, romantic, and if he has sex with you, won't tear apart your self confidence and leave you physically (and emotionally) bruised. That's a right that everyone has!

you need to have the confidence in yourself! you need to love yourself enough to want to be treated like a queen by a man. You must decide that you will not tolerate this jerks behavior anymore! Priorities... dump "SCOTT" and learn to love yourself!

You should definitly dump your boyfriend regardless of if BURT has a girlfriend or not. If he insults you like that then he doesn't really care about you.

Dump the asshole and wait for the sweet guy. You may have to compliment the sweet guy and show him that you appreciate him unlike his on and off again girlfriend.

I, personally, would dump "Scott." Whether or not you wait for "Burt" can be decided later, but if he doesn't think you're pretty and he's an ass then he's not worth your time anyways. As for Burt, I would wait for him. If he likes you then he'll stop getting back with his girlfriend and date you instead. Good luck.

ok me personally I would dump scott regardless he sounds like a jerk no man has the right to call you names are to bite you for that matter if he can do that then there is no telling what else he can do.

burt sounds like a nice guy but don't put ur life on hold for him he has a girlfriend and although she dumps him a lot it's down to him to tell her where to go.

You have two options:

1. Tell SCOTT he is hurting and disrespecting you.
or
2. Break up with SCOTT.

My ex hurt me and called me fat and ugly, he was being a jerk, I broke up with him. Now I have better guys in my life.

Hope this helps. :)