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Should I stay with him?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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My boyfriend raped his ex-girlfriend. Should I stay with him? I love him a lot.

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Energy (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
No. He's a horrible person. Align with better people in life. You'll learn this in abundance soon as you get older
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RFRFRF (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Hell no and get the hell away from him, he is just gonna hurt you. Sometimes its better to follow your brain and not your heart. Look out for your self and cut him out of you life completely or he is just gonna hurt you. Good?
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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Hell no!! if he done it once he will do it again and what kind of decent nice human being would do that to someone? he can't be a nice guy or a guy you could trust or the sort of guy any girl dreams of get away from him now you deserve so much better than that and so did his ex girlfriend! he's just a horrible person sorry but I don't care what anyone says if you rape someone you can't be nice at all. I'm sure you will find a nice caring decent person who you deserve your young so of course you will but stay clear of this guy xx
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Anonymous User (Age:Over 45)      When: 4 months ago
No! He violated someone that he knew, whether or not they were broken up. Just think
he doesn't care about anyone else-so actually he would not have to know them. Your
life is too short to worry about this. However, you could try to be a friend and encourage him to get counseling. You are also under the legal age of majority. Please, take the time and go forward with your life. Maybe look into a school for Psychology courses or
something, then you could also help others later in your life. You can continue to love
this person, use that love to get them help and turn their life around too.
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LilMiss (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Wow you're young and have so much ahead of you. Being a sexual assault victim, I can tell you that if they do it once, they'll do it again. You don't want to be the next victim do you? I'm sure you value yourself waaaay more than that. I highly recommend leaving him and fast. Everyone makes mistakes, but to me, rape isn't a mistake. It's a hellworthy trespass and they are completely aware of what they're doing while they're doing it. I understand that you really love him, but give your love to someone that deserves it hun. That's just my opinion.
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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Ok, it sounds like you've got a sticky situation going on here, honey.

If I were you, I'd be out of there. How did you find out he raped his ex? Is it hear say or has he admitted it? If he's admitted it, I'd take that as sort of like a warning, like "hey I did this to this one girl. Just so you know. " and I'd be thinking well damn what if I say no one night and he wants it anyway, is he gonna rape me too? Cause that's not gonna work for me. I'd be outta that relationship quick though.

My thought is if you have any doubts about your relationship, there's probably a reason for it.

Take care of yourself and be safe.
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Midwestbeauty444 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Hell no!
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annwyl-cariad (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
No way, honey. A guy who resorts to rape to get what he wants from a girl is no guy that you want to be involved with. I know your heart may be telling you to stay, but listen to your head on this one and GET OUT, before he hurts you too.
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