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Whoa, whoa, sugar, slow down. You're creeping me out and I'm not the object of your affections. He's not your husband-to-be, he's not the love of your life, if you haven't even been out on a date yet. Look, I've been sixteen, I know how it is to have a crush that is your whole life. I know how it is to write things like "Mrs. Michael Harper" or whatever on your notebook with little heart swirls around it. Pretty much every sixteen-year-old girl does that, but they don't end up marrying the guy, or usually even dating him.
But think things through a moment. If you didn't like someone, or maybe just liked them as a friend, and they were pursuing you relentlessly and obsessing over you, you'd be creeped out, right? You'd want to avoid them. Being stalkerish won't get you a guy. I think you may have lost your chance with this guy, but I'd lay off for a while and let him initiate contact again if he's interested. After all, he sure knows you're interested in him. If he's interested in you, he'll reciprocate. But it sounds like he may have lied to have an easy out from seeing you without telling you that you were creeping him out. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, chica, but you definitely went about this the wrong way.
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