I am currently living with my boyfriend right now but since we moved in together he has stopped taking me on dates, stopped making time for me, really the only thing we do now is have sex late at night when he gets in (which is 12-1:00 am). He used to go to bed around 10 pm), or we have sex before he leaves in the morning. I mean he does talk to me and we do do things together but never anything romantic like we used to. When we do go out, it's like pulling teeth to get him out and he won't go period unless his friends are there too (aka no one on one time outside the bedroom). So, I am moving out into my friends place. Should I tell my guy? Do you think this will work and show him that I am not just a booty call?? We have been together for a year and 2 months and it was his idea to live together. Any thoughts on the situation would be appreciated.
Should I tell him I am moving out? I already told him how I feel about the no dates and all of that.
You should tell him that you are moving out, but I also think that you should have already told him about your thoughts for his actions, or lack there of for the better of the relationship. Getting used to, routine is what takes away from the relationship and people have a tendency to take everything granted. One of the things to prevent from falling into the routine is to talk when you feel that you are missing out on the fun, when you feel like you are drifting away.
Nope. Don't say anything yet. If you've already stated how you felt, and he's done nothing about it, it's time for you to make your move, and you don't owe him an explanation. You're not just a blow-up doll, you're a human being, and relationships require more than just sex. Let him call you, and explain to him that things didn't improve, and your time is better spent with someone who appreciates you rather than just uses you to satisfy urges. Good luck!
Definately talk to him about this before you move out. As "homer" said, routine tends to take away from the romantic aspect of a relationship. And the only way to keep your relationship alive for the long run is to talk things out and find a compromising position that makes both of you happy.
rosynante
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I applaud you for moving out! Definitely tell him (he's gonna know when he comes home anyway). You aren't trying to piss him off, you're trying to show him how serious you are and how you expect to be treated and won't tolerate anything less. Good for you!
You should tell him and move out and see what he does, if he really cares or loves you he will show it when you are no longer are there hopefully he realizes he's an ass. if not your better off.
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