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Here is the most important thing that you wrote: He came up to me and said. I love you so I forgive you. So I was like crying and then I hugged him soo tight. I met all his family members. We went out to eat and stuff. HE met my mom and my uncle and my aunt too. And he told me he falls in love with me because of those things. And not because the sex part.! (cut and pasted from original question)
He obviously has some serious feelings for you to take you back after you were with another guy sexually!
You both are still figuring out who you are; therefore, how about consider putting the sex on a back burner until you two are married-what a gift of pure love to be shared on that day together if you both wait!
It is a lot easier to decide whom is a good fit for you when sex isn't a factor----having premarital sex really can cause a lot more problems that grow into literally changing your life forever----including pregnancy; STDs--herpes being the top one then there is risk of HIV, too; and the emotional scars it creates as well---feelings of regret--sorrow--being unloved--alone--or a person may even develop a sex addiction or drug addiction to treat the emotional pain.
What I have learned is gals/women need to be loved and guys/men need to be respected. And if all guys want is sex with a gal, that isn't love it is sex. And if all girls want to do is nitpick all the time at that guy, that shows him she has no respect for him. Yet, I have also learned that if you give a guy sex, that too tells him a lot about who you are----so if you wait to share that with a guy---it gives you both time to learn about one another and keeps him more interested in who you are----he has more respect for you and in turn you are able to have more respect for him---therefore, this allows love to take root in both of you to continue on growing closer as you continue to discover who you are together or maybe as you discover who you are you both decide to move on----and moving on is a lot easier when sex isn't a factor!
Most importantly, continue to learn who you are versus being someone or something according to what the world or your peers say you should be---You are a child of the God and Jesus loves you very much! Jesus is the way, the truth and life! For God so loved the world, the He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. John 3:16-17
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