So I got bored one night and wanted to go out so I called my ex to see if she was busy, well she wasn't so we went out and ended hooking up that night (she has a boyfriend might I add) I was just curious as to why she easily just went along with it, don't wanna sound like an asshole but I don't want anything serious with her (too much drama on her part. Actually feel sorry for the guy she's with) and I know for a fact I felt some type of chemistry FROM her even though I know she loves her boyfriend. Riiigggghhhhttttt so what you y'all think?
Girls are crazy and men are dumb. Think about it girls get all hyped up and act embarrassingly out of character once they feel anything. (Hooking up I am sure had those feelings flooding back) Men are dumb- why are you screwing with her- if she is involved with some one or not. For example she has most definitely analyzed this night over and over.
You on the other hand - like a typical male went for instant gratification, not thinking even a little ahead for what reprocutions your nights drama would cause. Why did you call her in the first place. Grow up and put closure on the situation. Take her boyfriend out of the equation and let her know what you are thinking. It will save her alot of time over analyzing the 2 of you and what could have been. If you want to be friends you need to be the one to draw the line and not use her for random night booty calls. UNLESS. You both are on the same page.
I get your point but I DID NOT know she had a boyfriend until afterwards so don't think I went for instant gratification I just wanted to hang out and that's what ended up happening, I did not intend on that or did I do it out of spite either, see women tend to play mind games and when I say that you know its true there is not one point in any girls life where they have not, if there is something to be said then say it, she did not until later so that made me less interested in her. - 7 months ago
Your ex still seems to have real feelings for you. And I'm guessing she's not totally into her new boyfriend (or she wouldn't have gone hooked up with you so quick and easy). In other words, you may be over her, but she's not over you. For her sake, as well as yours, it would probably be best to avoid more hookups, or things may get messier than you want. That's my two cents.
I think it would be wise for you to not get hooked back up with her unless you want to get hurt. The second time around normally hurts worse than the first! (That's just my opinion! )
Oh I'm not the one gonna get hurt. (that sounds messed up lol) I already know not to DO THAT anymore I guess it was just one of those times but my past interest in her is beyond gone - 7 months ago
Sorry to say but it sounds like she was just into it that night. I mean people always hold a special place for their ex's but hooking up with an ex usually means just that hooking up It's something similar and comfortable you know?
Well the fact she hooked up with you doesn't exactly mean that she wants to get back together with you. Even if she does have a boyfriend, if she really wanted you back she would have dumped her current squeeze and try to get you back. Fyi: girls do have sporadic hookups and who better than someone who already knows what they like right?
Your right about that, but what I forgot to mention were the constant phone calls I received out of nowhere and the fact that she gets all jealous when she finds out I'm with another girl - 7 months ago
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Well then that's a different story. If you've moved on, tell her. She has a b. F. And shouldn't even be messing around. She will only end up hurting herself if she likes you two at the same time. I'm sure that she'll keep hooking up with you if you want to, but beware of those anonymous calls that you might get from her because I'm pretty sure it's her checking up on you. - 7 months ago
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I know that I have moved on but for her? I question this, I have told her but its like her mind doesn't intake what I say. AT ALL lol and another thing is I wanna know HOW she finds out I'm with another girl I don't even really talk to her but your right about her having a boyfriend and messing around, I don't think she's giving herself respect on that part - 7 months ago
It looks to me like there may still be some lingering feelings for you. But you have to be delicate about this because you wouldn't want to open up old wounds. If the relationship is over between you and your Ex, then it is my opinion that you should just stay away from her. Remember she's an EX for a reason.
Correct you are about that this happened a few months ago but that question was still buzzing around my head. Damn maybe I shouldn't have done that lol - 7 months ago
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