I think a lot of men really get off on the chase of the woman, and once he is secure in her love he backs off. I wish there was hope for love to stir up things, and make him realize, that there are a lot of really handsome muscular guys out there and that he isn't the only one. Anybody have any answers on how to pretend you are hard to get. People say that they don't want to play games, but it seems as if Romance is an artful game to be played wisely, any hints out there? Yours Sweetly, Anna
Anna, I recommend you pick up a book called "love Tactics". You can go to their website, I think it is www. Lovetatics. Com. This book and website will give you a lot of hints on how you can keep someone infatuated with you. It also explains how the human brain works. Hope it helps.
I wonder who changes their behavior in a situation like this? So the pursuing guy is top notch when the chase is on and then backs off when when the the lady is caught, then his behavior changes. This would indicate that it was the behavior of the lady who allowed herself to be caught (thus changing her behavior) that initiated the change in his behavior.
I think you're right when you say you would like him to realize that there are others out there that you could get. From my view, it is knowing the possibility of her leaving for someone else that would keep the guy around and interested. For a while anyway.
Ahh the love games. Seems like we end up playing them whether we want to or not.