So he's sexy, funny, shares your interests, basically your best friend. And you have fallen in love with him.
But he's married, and you would never try anything with him, and you're not so full of yourself you believe you could end a loving marriage even if you were cold enough to WANT to.
But being friends has become kind of a heartache because you like him so much.
So what do you do? Remove the temptation? Cut him out of your life even though you'll miss him and he won't understand?
Or is there a way to get over it. Has just friends ever been enough for anyone?
As long as he's married, you really can't be anything more than friends. You may even get intimate one day, but he'd still belong to someone else and not you. The right thing to do is to get over him and move on with your life. And the easiest way to do this is to lose all contact with him. Or have as little contact with him as possible. But I know how you feel. I've fallen for a married woman myself.
Every time she's around, it just seems so right. Like we click. And I think one reason we feel this way is because we always want what we can't have. For me, she has all the qualities I'd want in someone. But unless she was available, I can't do much about it. You could try being friends if you wanted to. It is better than nothing. But you'll only be hurting yourself.
Sigh, I would recommend just trying to stay friends. It's a complicated thing but it is possible to get over even though it may not feel like it. But marriage is a big thing and if anything were to ever happen you would defiantly get the short end of the stick in the long run simply because when it comes time to make that decision usually history makes it over mystery.