I'm going out with this guy who I was talking to for like a year, and before spring break (when we started going out) we took a "break" even if we weren't going out, and he asked this girl to prom, who had a HUGE crush on him at the time. Well now things are REALLY great and we never been closer, but this Saturday night he still has to take her to prom. And I don't know why but I can't get over it, and I still get sad thinking about it even though I trust him, I just have issues with him spending a whole night with her, and they're going bowling after which makes it even worse. Advice please
I would take this as a TEST to see how loyal your man really is. Let him enjoy the prom with her but make sure that you two have plans after the Prom ends. Don't let him go off bowling with this girl, odds are they'll end up enjoying the night so much that one thing can lead to the other. If your guy insists that he wants to go bowling with this girl then ask to tag along. If he says anything about how bad the idea is then start worrying that's something is going on with this other girl in his life.
Oh, I just thought of this right now. Tell your man that after he has his fun at the prom then you are willing to give him a blowjob afterwards and then when you get him all alone to yourself with this other girl long gone, tell him you are not in the mood anymore. That way your man will be thinking the whole time at the prom that he can have his pie and eat it too but what you will actually be doing is saving your relationship. Then suggest to go do something else together. - 7 months ago
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