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How can I get him to open up to a relationship again with me?

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alice209 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I split up with my ex roughly 6 months ago. We had been together for 9 months and it had been amazing. We argued I think once (almost unheard of? ) and the reason we split up is because, like most men he had issues opening up and telling me his problems. They got so bad that he grew very distant and like most women do, I thought he'd lost interest and well we split up. Ever since, we haven't not been in contact. He sorting his life out, starting a new career and getting his feet back onto the ground. I'd like to think that I've helped him through this and been a great encouragement to him. We see each other at least twice a week now and text each other nearly every day. He took me up to his grandparents caravan at the weekend with his sister and niece and well I'm confused. We enjoy spending time together, we've always shared a quite intense friendship and he can't seem to let go or get back together. He's had no girlfriends since and no love interests either. I am the same, although mine is through choice. He is the one that I want and I regret dumping him 100%. I have told him and he says that he still has feelings for me but can't bring himself to jump back into the relationship. He has said before he's worried because it 'doesn't work the second time' and he's a little afraid we'll ruin the friendship if things were to go wrong again. What should I do?

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Lollipop19 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Well that his choice you can't force you ex to do thing that he don't wanna do you need to talk to him about your feeling you need to be sorry but you need to show him that you are serious if you just send him letter and other thing he will just trow them away just start like the same way you started with him and then you see if he want it or not
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