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I had a similar situation happen to a close friend of mine. I myself am in college, so I'll try to answer this to the best of my ability. The one thing you have to ask yourself, is how worth it it would be. If you two have had enough time together to determine if you want to uphold a long distance relationship. Are you willing to not see her for long periods of time? Can you put up with seeing other people together all the time, holding hands, cuddling, kissing, etc. And be okay with it knowing that you can't do that with your significant other at the moment? I'm not saying it's impossible, but you definitely have to ask yourself these questions. If you think realistically you two can remain loyal to one another and endure the distance, I would go for it. If you're not sure how she feels about it, talk to her. Tell her your own viewpoints, you own standing, and make sure you both get an understanding of where you want to go with the relationship. If things work out, that's great, and if not, it simply means it's not to be, as hard as that may be to hear. Either choice you make will have good and bad points, it's just a matter of determining which one is best. Best of luck!
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