I can't sleep. From my point of view, I have become best friends with this girl at my college. We have become very close in the past few months to the point that we hang out together a lot and there's a lot of cuddling to fight our loneliness. The joke has become that it's like we're married.
I know she wants to remain friends with me because I've tested the waters and she shuts me down when I get too close, and that's fine. But half of the time, partly because I've been searching for someone and I feel quite rejected, I feel like I want her to be with me as more than just a friend, and yet I don't but I can't stop thinking about it.
She has a boyfriend who is currently working in another state and they've seen each other occasionally. She's always been in a relationship and constantly talks about her ex-boyfriends/sex. As for me, It took me a while to grow out of my shell, plus I've spent the past few years focused on career/education without a sign of a relationship.
I feel I'm going to lose in the end when we go our separate ways at the end of the semester because she just wants to be with her boyfriend and I will be left alone. And because of this I've cut down on the time I spend with her, but it's starting to hurt, and it doesn't stop my mind from thinking about her anyway.
I think you like her so much well I can't tell if its love because there is only a thin lone between love and infatuation. And don't feel you are going to loose at the end because there is always a girl out there for you its just that we are too blind to see. And if you think she can't do without you try avoiding her for a while or if she talks about her boyfriend just show her nonchalant attitude but if you still want to be friends with her don't go over the boundary because you night loose her friendship just try to be nonchalant with her then she will ask you wasup with all these behavior and try to be cold to her at times but remember again if you want to be freinds and if you don't want to lose her friendship don't push to hard on your feelings worth her
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