Im so confused, What's happening?

She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Do you want her to keep eating you up like that? Have you ever heard the term "See a fool" Bump their head"? You don't have a headache yet? Where is your confidence, and self-esteem? Relationships , good or bad, has a way of draining you of that, don't let her do that. You deserve to have someone, that doesn't mess around on you, someone that is only seeing you, don't accept anything less than that. If she continues to see the other guy, stop seeing her. Relationships that include 3 people (and I'm not talking about a child) I'm talking about you,You, her that other guy, relationships like that never work, someone "WILL" get hurt, and what's bad about that is, it will probably be you. Get out while your ahead.

Literally f***ing him? I'm in a similar situation and I'm playing them both because I want one of them to tell me "Stop seeing the other guy, I want you for myself". I don't want to have to pick in case I pick the one that doesn't want me as much. Does that make sense? I think she wants you to take a stand and tell her to forget the other guy. Good luck.