I was dating this guy for 9 months. He told me he loved me before I ever said those 3 words. But he was kind of a jerk. Bad temper and stuff like that. He was always getting really mad over such little things. Like if I forgot to put the toilet lid down. He would flip. I just let it go and figured he was a high maintenance kind of guy. But he was so amazingly sweet and wonderful too. He was so sensitive and loving and thoughtful. And the way he held me and hugged me and was always kissing me and always wanted to cuddle seemed to confirm that he really did love me. We moved in together after 5 months. Everything was pretty much good. He was happier and all. Then about a month and a half ago, he got really screwed up. Took 3 ambien with a bunch of alcohol (no he isn't a substance abuser). And while I was trying to settle him down and all I picked up his phone to check text he had gotten. It was his ex and I found out he had been texting her all night asking her to make sure she got back to him. I confronted him the next day. After some discussion he said he still loves her more than he loves me. Ouch. I let it go and decided to wait things out. Two weeks later he breaks up with me and tells me he never loved me, and never would and that he was pretending to love me the whole time. Well, I let that go and said fine that we could just be friends. He didn't move out right away, and continued to act like we were together, and he still was acting like that until last night when he said he wants me to get out of his life. I don't know what to do. I love him but he keeps pushing and pulling me in all directions.
First of all I don't know what dude complains about the toilet seat being down, unless your one of those undercover dudes, that come on this anonymously as a women and ask crazy questions. This dude seems like a schizo, 3 Ambiens the only person I knew that took more then one of those 10mg bad boys had a lot psychological problems. Those things put you out in 30 min guaranteed (you feel like crap in the morning) unless you have a high tolerance. Sista what you need is to drop this loser, and you need to take the initiative because who knows what personality is going to drop by. You lose a friend and a lover but you don't need this, your young move on, before he does something your both regret
Well he took three ambien because he was drunk and I think he forgot that he had already taken one, and then took 2 because he actually had to take 2 normally to sleep. I don't think he realized how drunk he was tho. But I feel like he needs me...needs someone to just be there for him. I don't know... - 7 months ago
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See this goes to my previous comments made. You are an example of an masochist. Sadly you do not want to be happy you like being miserable who know what defining moment that came along, review familial past. Either way does he take the 10mg because again he must have a high tolerance if needs 2. Do whatever in your life, just don't expect any sympathy. - 7 months ago
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Well I'm definitely not a masochist. And I don't like being miserable. I dumped my boyfriend of four years because the last 6 months of it started to get unhappy. And actually I'm a very happy person. I'm ever the optimist. And I was very happy with this guy before I found out how he felt bout his ex. And again, he takes 2 ambien to sleep because one wasn't doing it after a couple months. You build up a tolerance to those things. Same thing happened to my dad. And I didn't want sympathy. - 7 months ago
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