Ok, I met this girl like two years ago. I had a couple of classes in school with her and we worked together. Honestly, we didn't know each other real well and we eventually went our separate ways without me ever getting to know her. I've literally always thought that she was the most beautiful girl I've ever known though. I recently found her profile on myspace and added her as a friend (she accepted). As little as we knew each other, I honestly doubt that she really even remembers who I am. I want to know how to re-gain contact with her through myspace (only way I have to be in touch with her) without sounding wierd about it. It's hard trying to do it through myspace, not having talked to her all this time, and not having any "real live" interaction. I was thinking about maybe just commenting one of her pictures telling her how I feel about her being the most beautiful person I've ever seen...But I don't want to sound like a stalker or anything, going in and looking at her pictures and stuff when we hardly even know each other. Right now, I just really want to have normal contact with her to get to know her more. Any suggestions?
[REPLY TO: prettyprinces] I'm just not sure how to start normal conversation with her. (sending messages back and forth) As little as we knew each other, there is nothing I can really bring up about work or school we can both relate to.
Girls never hate it when someone somments on there pictures saying they look really pritty.. So say it then message her and try and get some conversation flowing, ask her is she has msn (if you do) and talk on there. That way you two can talk alone wihtout anyone else seeing what you've written and you can flirt a little bit, if all this fails and it's still going nowhere then tell her how you feel in a message and if she doesn't feel the same way or says something unencouraging back then you send her another private message saying you see her view and you're sorry.. And more on, try and forget about her and focus on someone new
Schwildcat
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
I think the first thing to do (to avoid the stalker issue) is to find out if she does remember you or not. If she does than she may be more open to getting to know you better
If you give her an honest compliment, like that she's stuck out in your mind as being the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, and then back off until she makes the next move, I don't think she'll think you're stalking. If you write her a poem and sing her a song, then she'll freak :)
prettyprincess
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Well if you keep writing messages back and forth on myspace and yall will get to know each other then ask if she remembers you and if yall stay in contact then sooner or later she will probly like to meet some where because she knew you before