Should I pursue my feelings with a guy who might only want sex?

Hi, maybe you could just take it very slowly with this guy - If he is only interested in sex, you should know after the first 3 dates. Most guys who are only interested in a sexual relationship will want you to "put out" within the first 3 dates. If you're lucky, you can get them to hold out for 5 dates or up to a month without having sex. If you go out with him for up to a month with no sex and he is still interested and has not dumped you or started seeing anyone else, you will find out that he likes you for you and not just a sex object. However, if you don't go out with him a few times, at least to find out, you will never know whether he was really into you or not. You can also try letting him know up front in a kind and casual way that you do not want to rush into sex with anyone. If he tries to pressure you into sex or if he bolts, you will have your answer. If not, he may become someone that you can have as not only a boyfriend, but a friend as well!

Forget your friends and everybody else. You already know what you will allow with this guy. They're judging him and you don't even know if that true. So, how you find out he''s no good? In time cause time will tell and actions speak louder than words. If you like this guy, you be with him because you want to be and don't worry about what others say. They may be right but maybe just maybe he may really like you and want something more. Give him a chance and ignore the rest but at the same time, you've been warned. So be careful with what you do with this guy, watch the signs and let things flow. Good luck!