Opinion please. I go out with a girl for two years, I find out she has being seeing someone else by chance I don't know the full details but I say fair enough and walk away heartbroken but maintain my dignity. Weeks later she comes to me with some tale about getting strange text but says she doesn't have the number they are from. Cries saying its all a mess I say I'm fine. (still heartbroken) I don't ask her back, don't know what she wants or where the other man is up to. Day later she cries again. I'm supportive but don't did, I walk away. Two days pass I ask are you ok she tells me she doesn't want to talk about it and to leave her alone. Several weeks have now passed, we work together, if I see her I simply say hi and keep going. I feel like she hates me. The other guy I know is player and has been in contact with other women.
Weeks ago I'd tried to be her friend and be normal as I think I have behaved well no trouble, no name calling, told her I love her but I have to go. If id text her she simply wouldn't respond my text were only ever friendly I did no begging or pleading. Recently I have text her worked based and she has responded light hearted.
I was in her office the other day, and I would catch her looking at me for what I thought was ages though I'm sure it was only seconds and she asked me a question about work whilst we were both stood up , we got that close to each I physically had to take a step back. Another female in the office stated how close we got.
I was at late at work the other day on the phone looking out the window and I saw her walk to my car as she was leaving it was no where near hers or even the same colour, mine was parked back so you couldn't see my registration, she didn't see me at was if she was checking I was still in work.
I'm so confused by this girl. I have maintained my stance and given her no attention other than hello. What is happening here, I'm trying to move on, but there is no doubt I care deeply but there are so many unanswered questions.
Anybody any idea of her game plan or thought process?
you had stand up for your manhood, unfortunate you met a vixen. and it she love to play mind game, it is disrespectful to seeing someone else during a relationship.
i'll be frank with you
she think you got no game and you will do anything to get back to her, that is why she is getting in and out of your life. she think she got the key to your heart.
but you can change the lock. and sir remember the fishing story??
there is always a bigger and better fish in the ocean,