My boyfriend is very greedy and I ask him for little things here and there and he gives excuses saying he don't have enough money, he has to pay many bills, but he can go buy himself $700 worth of car system stuff? I don't ask for much besides like $40 for my nails, clothes, things to look good for him. Can someone explain to me why he acts like this?
Your boyfriend is clearly a dick if he needs to spend $700 on his car. If you live together he should spend a little money on you but if you don't then it is really up to him
Yes we do live together, and I do have a good paying job and so does he, but when I am bad with my financial I would like for him to lend me some money for things I need at the moment. But no he doesn't and that kind of hurts because if he ever needed money (note: I have ) I'd give it to him. - 3 months ago
I don't mind him spending that much on anything, it should go to us or a new house we are trying to get, but he doesn't think that way. And note I'd give him money if I had it, but when I need money and am in a financial downhill, he is always greedy, not understanding if he really is like that I'd pay him back. I guess we will have to work this one out on our own. Thank you for your answer. - 3 months ago
okay i didnt mean to put it that way i do have my own money and always offer it to him, but when i dont i ask him and he says no. but when he asks me to borrow money i always say yes. and this goes for the rest of the answers everyone left. i should have detailed it a little better. - 4 months ago
It's his money and what he does with is is up to him!
I look good for my boyfriend all the time, but I spend my own money, as a girl you should look good for your man, but you don't use his money for it lol you use your own
Obviously it's nice when your boyfriend buys you things, here and there, but he shouldn't be giving you money for nails and clothes lol that's for you to buy, not him.
Also, Him spending that much on his car is his choice as he earns the money! :)
i answered to a previous one saying this goes for the rest of the people who left me answers. i do have my own money, but when i don't and ask him for a little here just for something small he gets very offensive. i alway offer my money to him if he is in need. for anything. like i said above i should have wrote my question more detailed. - 4 months ago
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He's your boyfriend not your sugardaddy or husband so there's no reason for him to HAVE to give $40 for clothes, nails or whatever. He earns his money and what he chooses to do with it is his problem. I'd worry if he were spending it on other girls.
I'm all for guys treating there girl well and if they want to get them something nice or whatever, then it's sweet and good.
However, a guy shouldn't feel obligated to do so, it should be something he wants to do just because. You should love your guy for how he treats you, the little details, how he makes you feel. Not what he buys you or the money he gives you.
LIKE I SAID ABOVE I SHOULD HAVE WROTE THE QUESTION A LITTLE MORE DETALIED. I DO HAVE MY OWN MONEY, BUT I DIDNT HAVE ANY AT THE MOMENT AND JUST WANTED TO GET SOME THINGS DONE, BUT HE SAID NO. I WORK HAVE MY OWN MONEY AND HE WORKS AND HAS HIS OWN MONEY. WHEN HE IS IN NEED I GIVE IT TO HIM BUT VISE VERSA ITS A WHOLE DIFFERNET STORY. THANK-YOU FOR YOUR ANSWER - 4 months ago
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