My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. He has a guy best friend who he hangs out with every Monday night along with a bunch of other guy friends. I don't have a problem with that, but now it's turning into other nights. To top it off, I am never allowed to chill out with them. I don't know what to do? This is beginning to be a trust issue with me. Should I be worried?
Don't worry yet. Are you a very needy girl? Do you talk to much or complain a lot? There has got to be a reason why he is finding himself away from you more often. You guys have been together for 2 yrs and maybe he needs some space or maybe he's just a prick OR maybe he gets influenced by his friends. Does his friends have girlfriends or are they single losers who always says "ho's before bros"? Figure out if you are doing something wrong and why "chicks" aren't allowed to these meetings. Sometimes girls aren't allowed because guys are into some STUPID stuff anf are afraid the girls will get really bored, "so why bother" type of mentality gets in our stupid little heads. So communicate with him more and if you don't trust him, find holes in his stories. Guys are Horrible liars once you figure out what they lie about.
Yes you should be worried and I'll tell you why. If a man begins to spend more time with his "friends" instead of with you then there are two reasons why: Either he's gay OR some of these "friends" he's hanging out with are female. I've had that same issue before with my ex. He used to go out sometimes and then it started to be all the time. Seemed he didn't really want to be around me as much and we ended breaking up because he was seeing another woman during those times that he said he was hanging out with his "buddies"
My boyfriend does the same thing, however he wants me to hang with him and his friends. I would bring it up. You two have been dating for two years, he should have you be around his friends at least some of the time.
Conversation && Communication are key to a healthy and successful relationship. Let him know how you feel. Don`t attack him , be gentle with your wording but firm. Don`t accuse him of anything just hear what he has to say.
rosynante
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
I wouldn't worry too much or lose trust but I would talk about it. It might be a sign that he's bored hanging out with you. And, while he should have some "boys night out" freedom, he should WANT you to go out with the group, you know?
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