I am interested in a girl, we flirt and she has given me signs that she likes me, she told me that she felt like she could tell me anything, and she is interested in what I am doing and tells me she really wants to hang out tonight and stuff like that, anyways, I always get excited when this happens and seem to rush into things. What is a good pace to take this, what's too fast, what's too slow? I have only known her for a month or so, and I think we could be really good for each other, but I am afraid of going into boyfriend mode before we are even close to that point. If you were trying to give a guy a sign that you liked him, how would you want him to react?
well i am girl and i have been there before when i like a guy and i give him signs that i like him. i would like him to show me that he likes me back, and i would want him to get to know me before we get into the whole boyfriend- girlfriend thingy. hope it works out. good luck!
Girls like it when guys act first but maybe you should ask her and see if she really likes you. Rushing into it too quickly is like if you started dating and you celebrate your first week together and stuff. But if I wanted a guy to react to me liking him asking me to dinner would be good. Also don't say as friends don't even categorize it at first or you could end up as " the friend" and that would ruin everything of even getting to be in any sort of romantic relationship with her. But a good pace is not calling like 6 times a day or whatever make all your get together sort of casual and it usually moves on from there. Do fun things like paint balling or concerts and that will always get you talking about the things you both have in common and then you really start to open up to each other. Too slow would be like calling her like once or twice a week and not really making plans to hang with each other
If you are really unsure, follow her lead. She seems to be outgoing and making her feelings visible, so let her know that you're interested too. Hang out with her informally, and if things are going good, ask her out.
If this was me, I would be more concerned that you didn't return my feelings than that you were a little too into it.
Whether she's going too fast or not shouldn't matter dude. YOU CONTROL THE PACE. Any girl that is this interested in you is a good thing, but now that you've got her attention, you've got to bait her. Be "busy" sometimes (not pick up the phone when she calls, but call her back an hour later or something), play with her head, give her mixed signals, but set dates and stuff. Don't tell her how you feel though, AT ALL. Just let it take it's course and keep your emotions and feelings in check.
Well it appears that you might have been momentary place and stuck at the dreadful Friend Zone. In order to escape this zone you might want to spend less time around her to give her a chance to miss your company and present some signs of interests with body languish but not with words of speech and if she accept and reflect your feeling then and only then express your emotion verbally.....Cheers!!!
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