My Girlfriend thinking of other guy....What should I do?

You should understand that your girlfriend is sending you a message. She is telling you that all is not wonderful in your relationship (as you probably already know. ) and that she needs something more or different from you -- probably something she used to get from her ex. Since she is telling you she's thinking of her ex, she's probably open to talking about it with you. Take advantage of this, and talk to your girlfriend about what's bothering her. Ask her what she misses about her ex, and how you can be a better boyfriend for her. I know this sounds like chick-flick type advice. But she really is sending you a message. If you want to respond and make things better, try something like what I described. Good luck!

You know as long as she is not acting on it and as long as you know she cares for you, then I would not worry to much about it. I mean, I have thought about old loves before. Only difference is that I would never tell my boyfriend about it. I know that I would never do anything about. And clearly, while I may think about that guy in a reminiscent way, there is a reason why I am not with that person. That's what you have to tell yourself. She might think about that guy, but she is not with him. She is with you. Try and not worry too much.

You should dump her... that solves your misery.

She sound she's with the other guy even she said she isn't, what do you think about when your upset? When we are young we think about our parents, teenager we think about best friends, when in love we think about our lover(if they isn't the one upset you). Who are they? The one we love the most. Sorry to hear but I think her love for you is fading away.

Not knowing anything about your relationship it's hard to give advice, but if you've not been together long, say, under 6 months, I'd say it's time to dump her. It's just been my experience (not just me, I've had friends who've been with girls for 3, 4, and 5 years respectively who've had this same situation come up) that when a girl starts talking about another guy, she's already with him. I don't know your girl at all, but when a lady in my life starts bringing up another guy on a regular basis, more often than not she's already been cheating. I won't be with a girl who talks about a specific guy all the time, there's a chance it means nothing but I've been down that road too many times to take the risk if it's a girl I haven't been with for a long time.

To tell the truth I think she is trying to make you jealous. She wants you to think she is not bothered in you to make you buy her things or show your affection more often depending on the type of girl you are dating. You should tell her that her thinking of another man isn't making you feel very confident in the strength of he relationship,

P. S. It is not mental cheating it is manipulation