I love my girl. I want to marry her, I assumes she love me loads to, at times I say harsh things to her because she makes me feel insecure. I get jealous if she is talking to any other boy. At times I feel like she is playing me. I don't know what to do, I wanna talk to her about this matter but, I don't know how to ask her or make my self feel secure about her. I really honestly love this girl want to make her my wife. I can't stop thinking about her, like what is she doing now, or if her phone is busy who is she talking to. I've been out with loads of girls not one like her she is 1 of a kind 24-7 on my mind.
Yeah you should talk to her. If you care about her so much, then you should easily be able to sit down and talk to her about it. I, myself, have realized that sometimes guys say things that come out harsh,. But that they don't mean it. Just tell her how you feel, I don't see why she would get upset or anything.
My heart really goes out to you, I have been in a similar relationship where I felt the same way. But being jealous and saying harsh things never works, it usually just makes things worse. Especially if you question her about her talking to other people all the time. Does she give you any reason for you to think she is doing anything wrong? You really need to talk with her about your feelings without accusing her of anything wrong though. And once you talk and you say what you need to, you just need to let it go. This is something that really needs to be worked out if you are really serious about getting married, because it won't go away it will only get worse. I hope it works out for you.
The only way to get secure is to tell her how you feel and don't treat her harshly, because she may end up walking away, if she's with you- she loves you or likes you a lot, and she needs to know that you feel the same. But you can't separate her from other people or talking to them, everybody needs space and I mean let her do her things. What you need is to learn how to trust.
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