Is it so you don't get hurt, you hurt the guy or attempt to first so you think you have the upper hand hurt him first before he hurts you? Because you assume all guys are out to hurt you?
Or do you want to see if the guy plays into them you want to see if or how much he likes you? Even though he either has said he likes you or wants to see you, because why would he want to see you or spend time with you if he didn't like you?
And yes I have heard some but not all guys play games.
As you have stated, some but not all guys play games. This also applies to girls. Some do and others don't. I myself do not find the need to play games with my significant other to test how much he likes me or hurt him in anyways. However, there are girls out there that do so.
My friend was one of these girls as she wanted to make sure that the guy that she went out with would always be there for her, would return to her no matter what happened. However, the poor guy got pushed beyond what he could take and left her. I have also seen this the opposite way where guys have tested girls until she broke down.
So no, you are not totally wrong. Just that there are girls that do play games and others do not. I mean I do like playing videogames, but not any mental game.
Oh well I agree with you in one aspect I love playing video games as well and would love to find a woman to do so as well, but as far as any other games NO THANKS, I can't say much to what you said except shake my head because that's way way too much to put anyone through, I agree it is ridiculous I really don't get it why screw with someone, just because or just to verify their own insecurities to see if they are interested. - 3 months ago
I actually have no clue. I am not a game player, and none of my friends are either. Even in my 20s, I was not like that. But it has always seemed to me that guys LIKE game-playing girls! Those girls that play hard to get, or act dumb, or try to make a guy jealous. So maybe they just do it because it works.
Well I assure you I have not interest or desire in girls who play games trust me huge turn off I think, then again I think girls do it to see if the guy is really interested but if he wanted to see you that would mean he liked you simple I know but still, a girls who acts dumb HUGE turnoff, and hard to get and the jealous thing is all a turn off trust me but I don't get it maybe that's why I am single because I don't go for the games and etc, but think I am single for another reason. - 3 months ago
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Well obviously not all guys DO find it a turn-off or girls wouldn't do it. You sound very mature - maybe that's part of your "problem. " You need to find a girl who is a grown-up. - 3 months ago
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Thanks I think I am mature always have been, was more mature in HS as well I think, plus I have heard I should find a girl who I guess is more or less a grown up/ a big girl. But believe you me that's easier said then done trust me- at this point I think I am better off alone - 3 months ago
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
It would depend on where we were going ir we going to the movies I would wear a real nice pair of jeans and a really cute tee. if were going to eat I would wear a kinda short skirt and a cute flare shirt
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
I like to experiment with my hair um... my makeup is light but can tell that I am wearing a little bit of make up. but my make is never too dark, because I am not a big fan of dark makeup
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