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loveStruckBaby

He wants to "test" our friendship...huh?

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loveStruckBaby (Age:30 to 35)     When: 4 months ago
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I've been friends with him for about a year. We're tight. Says he only wants to be friends with me but that we have an intense friendship.

When I decided to do something with my boyfriend, instead of him, he later said (several times) "you chose him over me".

Our friendship went sour for a few weeks. We hardly spoke.

I asked him why we don't talk anymore and he said "you chose him".

I said "there's no reason we can't be friends just because I have a boyfriend". And he said "well let's put that to the test".

Wtf does THAT mean?

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tegdim (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Jealousy, if he truly have only friendship feeling with you then I think he mean if you have a boyfriend you will have less then with him which what he mean by "you chose him". Not to be rude by it's kind of like when you have a partner your dog get upset, that kind of way I think. But it could mean he's jealous because he have feeling for you.
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Answerer If you have a boyfriend you will have less time* with him, spelling mistake ^^; - 4 months ago
Question Asker I should also mention that he asks me constantly "what's going on with you and (boyfriend's name here)? " even though I've told him many times that it is confusing when he does this. - 4 months ago
Answerer He's saying what's wrong with himself? - 4 months ago
Question Asker I'm not sure I understand your last comment. Could you clarify? - 4 months ago
Answerer Oh sorry misread '-'; but yea sounds like there's some kind of jealousy from him, he constantly want to know what happening with you and your boyfriend, usually guy ask that when he's really care about that person(usually love that person). - 4 months ago
Question Asker He used to tell me he loves me - all the time. Now he doesn't say it at all. Even when I say it to him first. Last summer he said to me in a text message "all I know is I love you with all my heart". What do you think? - 4 months ago
Answerer Other time could be just friendship love, but from that text sounds like he loved you more then just friends. He doesn't say he love you now maybe he's intimated from you and your boyfriend feels like its useless to say he love you when you love someone else(in love-ship way). - 4 months ago
Question Asker He keeps insisting that we're JUST FRIENDS. I asked him once why we couldn't be more than friends and he went on for an hour about how he has nothing to offer me. I told him over and over that I don't care about that and he finally said it would be creepy. Like being with his guy friends but I got the impression that he just said that to end the conversation. - 4 months ago
Answerer Depends when you ask him that, he might thing its creepy to love someone who is best friend to him but love can grow after a while so he could be changed now. - 4 months ago
 

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skootz (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Yea deff jealousy lol. He wants you dude. He wants you bad. He hates the fact that your dating another guy. It might be that he thinks that he is closer to you then your boyfriend is and that he deserves a shot with you more then your current guy.

You didn't even mention if you like your current boyfriend btw.
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Question Asker I like my boyfriend but I don't LOVE him. I'm not sure if I ever will. I've told my friend that I loved him (several times in the past) and he said he doesn't want a relationship. But he's been acting sooo weird over this relationship with my boyfriend. - 3 months ago
 
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