Ok My GF(28y) & I(21y) have been together for about a year now , I had met my girl at school, same program but separate classes & I was in a class full of girls from there she either turned jealous I guess or she was already a jealous girl I was not sure yet until we started talking. Like how every relationship starts off either from Great to worse or vice versa ours started off great & now gone bad. Now during that year about 3,4 months into our relationship she had moved in with me. From that point on that's where everything had started I guess so now I need advice PLEASE.
Don't get me wrong I've made some bad mistakes on our relationship but importantly I've been nothing but FAITHFUL to this girl. Which some guys can't do "Be faithful". Anyways Mine&her mistakes at the beginning of our relationship was: I had a myspace without telling her, it didn't really occur to me cause it was just a page of motorcycle pics- HERS: was Lying about her age Saying she's 26 when really she's 28 I had found out the hard way by cleaning our room & I confronted her, she stayed speechless.
2nd was I accidentally called her by a wrong name what happen was it was my friends sisters bday & my friend invited my girl & I but for some reason we had an argument that same day so I decided to text him that we won't be able to go during I was doing the text. My girl had shoved me & I accidentally called her by a wrong name I immediately apologized & said it won't happen again- from that I knew that I was scarred DAMN. Now every argument that we have she brings that up- HERS: Calling her EX in my car at my house but like an idiot I still stood there outside my car could've turn my back but I liked her. For me no more mistakes as for her she had gotten a dui & after pulling her out from jail she then tells me she's pregnant so now we are going to be a family she is 6 months pregnant right now long story short the same drama still happens till now but this time really bad now that she is pregnant she is going crazy I mean out of her mind to a point where she's throws pillows the house phone pushes me anything she could get her hands on, don't get me wrong I've threw a pillow at her also and tried to calm her down and nothing I walk away she's there behind me its to a point where we can't communicate anymore I know its sounds bad but damn, Then one day she calls the police on me for no reason, police were on my side and she's freaks out saying I knew the police, even the cops told me I got myself a drama queen so sad.
But like they say a person could only take so much I had tried & tried to keep her happy by being by her side & taking every step with her but she keeps going at it & I don't know how else to say or explain it as you can see I'm having trouble putting this together when so much has happened & I am going to be a father & I'm at knees trying to hang on & I tell everyone including my girl is this what I get for being faithful my own family tells me what's wrong with her.
Update: GUYS what would you do in this kind of situation when a girl lies about her age, calls the cops for no reason, a damn family disturbance, when with friends she calls you every 15-20min and bitches@ you if girls R near u, for 1 year same thing.
6 months ago
She was drinking and got a DUI knowing she was pregnant? Ugh! You know what, I'm going to be extremely bashed for saying this but. You don't have to stay with her even if she's having your baby. Be a responsible father, take care of your baby, always make sure your son/daughter has everything he/she needs, spend time with him/her and give it your heart to educate him/her the best way you possibly can. But don't stay with this crazy woman. You don't want your baby growing up in war zone do you? She is obviously messed up, she is obviously quite wrong and she is being selfish and stupid when she should be thinking about the little one she's about to bring into this awful equation. You can't do anything to change her, but you can surely do a lot to ensure your baby grows up in a healthy and loving environment.
I sense that this girl has some major insecurity and fear issues. She may be afraid of you leaving her and is sabotaging the relationship. If she is jealous, it means that she doesn't trust you. She has trust issues, which means that something happened in her life to breach her trust. If you truly love her and want to be with her in your heart, tell her that you love her, but she needs to get counseling help and that you want to be there for her and support her and the baby but you are not going to put up with her jealousy and temper tantrums. She needs to grow up, and it sounds as though you have two children on your hands instead of one. Yes, it is the right thing for you to be there for your child no matter what, so don't let this girl keep you from doing what's right regarding your child in the future. But, also, no matter what happens, don't lose your cool with her and get on her level. You need to be the mature one in this relationship for the sake of everyone. Get help and advice from people such as your parents and other people who have experience in what it takes to raise children properly. There is loads of help out there if you're truly willing to do what it takes. Your girlfriend is acting like a spoiled brat and needs to be treated with patience as you would your own child right now. Hope this helps.
Well first of all how do you know that child is yours? She questions you on how faithful you are but have you ever stopped to think maybe she might be the one guilty. Another possibility is that she is under a lot of stress BECAUSE she is pregnant. When women are pregnant they aren't themselves in which case things should start going back to normal after the birth. If none of these are possible then you need to get out of this relationship. I know you want to be there for her and the kid, but the kid wouldn't have a very good life if your only in the relationship for the kids sake. You wouldn't have a very good life either.
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When: 6 months ago
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