I try really hard to be able to see him, I get myself to his school with my own money, and work out rides at least twice a week to see him, and work it out so I can see him on the weekends. Well he can never sees me on the weekends, and he doesn't try. He says he loves me with all his heart. But wouldn't someone that loves you that much at least make it appear like he is trying to put forth some kind of effort?
Yes. If he loved you he would take a spare opportunity to see you.
Fair enough if he's busy but if he has absolutely nothing to do but STILL refuses to make the effort to come see you he's obviously a liar and couldn't possibly love you with all his heart!
I'm not gonna tell you to leave him because that's your decision - but think carefully about whether you want to stick with a boy that can't be arsed coming to visit?
I don't want to break up with him, because he's a really good guy, he's just a little confused sometimes, I do wish he puts forth and effort, but I don't want to loose him over it. Maybe I just need to make it really clear to him that this is how I feel, since I don't communicate well. - 4 months ago
Make him put forth some effort then. If it's you that's making all the sacrifices then it's not really a functional relationship. I hate to be blunt and a tad rude, but love is just a word to a lot of people. Especially if you're in high school. If you want him to realize that you're making all the sacrifices just tell him. Don't make him jealous with other guys or anything like that though
I did, I told him that week days I'd put forth an effort, but weekends were his deal, and well I guess we'll see. I mean he cares about how I feel and such, but sometimes he's just not so good at showing it. And I know it's all about words and not feelings in highschool, but I'm picky, and I feel like he's different. Or maybe I'm just making him up to be better than he is. Sorry for ranting. - 4 months ago
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