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Jealous..to the extreme..? Am I too jealous?

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-canigetayeehaw- (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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Ok. Well I've been with my boyfriend before I dated him for 7 months and he cheated on me when he was away so we broke up. Now were seeing each other again and its ok, when were not around a certain person. He likes this girl and asked her out the week before he asked me. She never gave an answer and when she said yes he was seeing me. Well, we went on this boat HMS Bullwark with cadets and he ignored me ALL week! But he was with her! He wanted to be with her all the time. Partners and everything so I confided in his and my mate and he talked to him for me and it still went on. I hate it! On the trip I got really close to the girl! She is sooooo nice and very pretty. So on the way home when she got upset by thinking she was breaking us up I felt so bad. Were mates now and my boyfriend says that he won't flirt but he will and I know it! It hurts me all the time and I hate it but I really love him so much. What do I do?

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tegdim
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tegdim (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
You know he will flirt already, you know he's a not trustful guy yourself. In my opinion I say break up with him, he cheated, he flirts, he ignored you, he likes/flirt with the other girl so much you can actually feel it, you know he won't stop flirting. Tell the other girl, your boyfriend is a flirt, its not just her and she didn't break you two up. Your boyfriend probably end up losing both girl(you and the other girl) and realized what he did, and if he truly love you he will ask you to go back together. If he doesn't he's definitely not worth your time.
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sexy-man (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I think you should just break up with this guy. You guys broke up because he cheated on you and he (in reality) was cheating on you again while on the trip. There is no doubt that this guy will cheat on you whenever possible because he thinks you are too easy.

I don't think you are jealous. But you do need to confront him and tell him to move on.
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dohcrwd
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Envy is always a deal breaker in a relationship. Try not to take it to extreme.

But a little bit can spice things up.

Half the world is male. Why you want someone who had cheated on you before?
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Just-A-Random-Guy
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Just-A-Random-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Grow a backbone and lose this guy. He obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings. You won't ever change him. You're a beautiful girl and you deserve much better than that.
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kiem-gg
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kiem-gg (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Unhealthy relationship, break it off.
He cheated on you, so trust is already been broken and that is hard to repair, most of the time you never truly get over something like that and believe me. You'll just live constantly asking yourself if he's being faithful or if he is out and about with someone else. Why would you want to stay in a relationship that unhealthy? Plenty other men out there that would treat you million times better, so just break it off and move on!
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iLovesShoes
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iLovesShoes (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Break up with him! Don't let him think that you're obsessed with him.
He can't use you as a backup! Trust me it's not worth it this happened to me just yesterday!

Just date another guy for a while don't make him think that you still like him
You gave him a chance and he blew it you deserve much better. He's just a jerk
You shouldn't be jealous although it's completely normal to be jealous just try to get over him because he is totally not worth it!
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lirpa
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lirpa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Plenty more fish in the sea. Forget about him, you have every right to be jealous and that's exactly what he wants.

He ignored you for another girl, as well as the advice from a friend, that's just not on.

What to do -call it quits, relish in some ice cream and a good chick flick, just don't waste any time more time on him.
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