I met this really hot girl at the club I work at. She asked me out and I thought it would be fun. She picked me up and went driving around the city. I didn't mind because it is time to talk and get to know each other without interruptions. So she is driving and I look over and notice her top is down and she is rubbing herself. I try to be interested but still be proper and I put my hand on her leg, after a few minutes she said I was being inappropriate. So I just kept to myself and continued on with the date. We started spending a lot of nights together just driving around and mostly she wants to talk about sex and who she would like to do it with, everyone but me it seems like.
Every time we are out she wears a skirt and some revealing top. She knows I like her, but insists she is in no way attracted to me. She texts me several times a day while I am working my day job. Or she will call me. She always wants to hang out and she usually pays for gas and always wants to drive and be in her car. I don't mind if she is more comfortable this way. I had told her that since she did not like me as I liked her I wold not be in this situation as it is not good for me. She told me not to be silly? So we are friends but she knows I like her more. We always have a good time together and usually spend hours just riding around. We spent the day saturday together, several hours, and when she dropped me off I never thought to when I would call her since she isn't interested in me.
Next day she calls me she says because I hadnt called her yet, this was dinner time. I didn't call she isn't into me. I send her a text telling her happy mothers day and I said bye, she calls thinking I meant bye forever. I said no she had to work that night. As soon as she got off she called and wanted me to go out, I said cool, and we out same as always. Today she text me several times and came to see me at work. She kept texting me wanting me to leave work early and hang out. I did and she came and got me and we drove around for five or six hours.
She was rubbing herself again and had undone her pants. If I move towards her she pulls away or looks at me like I am doing wrong. But yet we are having a great time laughing and so on. Sometimes she is sweet, sometimes silly and playful saying to me you like me. Of course I do that is why I am with her! Then today like other times her mood will change suddenly.
Today she got really cold so I asked what was wrong, and she said nothing. I called her sweetie and she snapped and said not to call her that. What did I do wrong. We spend too much time together to not be interested, I think? She is too hot to not have other men to spend time with yet she spends most of her time with me and always talking about sex, but insists she doesn't think of me this way. Please ladies how do you handle someone like this? What does she want from me? I don't want to be pushy, how can I make her see me differently. Am I reading her signals wrong or is one of us crazy?
Update: After I left her I text her telling her I didn't mean to make her mad and I was sorry I liked her that way, I told her that I was going to leaver her alone and said bye. today I got a text , hello. then a text with whats wrong.
3 months ago
Ok your not crazy, she is! First, I have had a friend in high school and in college who was very sexually open and teased. She is teasing you that is what she is doing and she knows it. The two friends I had did this because they needed the constant male attention because they were highly insecure. I believe this is her problem. She is so insecure that even if she likes you and it sounds like she may, she won't let you know because she is getting self esteem by you wanting her. She feels wanted! She may be into you too, and is just living off your attention and likes knowing that she has control of you. Honestly, from the two friends I HAD, they only end up hurting the guys and chances are they are doing this with other guys and you don't know what all she is doing with other guy- get it? Move on there, you'll find someone better, with less baggage and more classy. I'm not friends with these girls anymore because I never did that and never would.
I know about her baggage, she tells me everything. I know about all the other men, that doesn't bother me. I'm confident in my own self. I have tried to walk away, she won't let me. when I left her last night I text her and told her I was sorry I made her mad and that I liked her that way, I told her I was going to leave her alone and said bye. today I got a hello text and then a whats wrong text. I explained, she said stop the boyfriend stuff. I'm not playing boyfriend. I can't tell if she likes me - 3 months ago
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From what you say, she is using you for attention. When you said you tried to leave and she wouldn't let you, you just have to cut her off completely. You being caring and concerned and sending her the "are you ok? " text is showing her that you aren't leaving. When she calls and texts you need to ignore it completely. If your worried about hurting her feelings you need to remember she is not worried about hurting your. You need to go cold turkey! - 3 months ago
That girl is a horrible tease, you need to set her straight on that. What she is doing is unfair to you, she needs her head examined. Get it out in the open, if she continues this behavior then don't spend any time with her. There are definitely more sane fish in the sea
She's nuts. Who does that? She may be hot, but it seems like she likes playing around with men's feelings, maybe it makes her feel good (especially since you give her a lot of attention). Ignore her for a few, maybe that will help.
I'm kinda in the same place she doesn't take off her top but the rest sounds the same, I have been trying to stay away from her, I'm tired of being hurt. Please let me know how it works out and what you did, it may help me
When I first read I thought that she may be playing hard to get, but damn that's playing impossible to get. I can understand hanging out a few times a week, but if she keeps calling you and driving with you and stuff, just tell her you don't think that it's a healthy friendship, as you'd like to be with her.
Just talk to her and ask directly what she wants from you, and hopefully she will give you an honest answer. If she keeps stringing you along, then just break any ties with her immediately.
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