I have been friends with this girl for about 3 years and it has been fun for the most part were really close she said she has liked me but she had a boyfriend at the time well now her boyfriend is gone but I'm still not lucky I don't think she has those feelings for me anymore. I want that to change I'm crazy about this girl and she's driving me insane I don't know whether to let her go be satisfied with being just friends or take a chance and go for her please help.
You have several options: Three of them would be: 1. Ask her out; 2. Wait and see what happens - to see if she will show some signs of being interested. 3. Hint around and see if she gets the hints you make. Asking her out requires that you be open to being rejected if she is only interested in you as friends. Waiting means that you could wait a very long time and/or maybe lose her because of waiting too long or her moving on to someone else who shows interest. Hinting around may be a good way to find out if she likes you without setting yourself up for rejection. If you flirt with her and she flirts back, then you may have an answer. Personally, that is the one that I would go for if I were you, but that's just me! You can learn some awesome flirting techniques on David DeAngelo's website. Good luck!
Randomly hug her, put a note in her locker, tap her and ask a question about homework, ask her if she wants to catch a movie (mention you'll pay, but don't argue about it, if she wants to pay let her do so) txt her jus to talk and flirt a little (nothing over the top, thinigs like 'you're pretty cute just felt like letting you know that') don't stalk her but playfully chase her in the hallway for a few seconds (walk up to her and say 'you're it'). If nothing works well keep the realtionship, better knowing someone you like than sitting across the room glancing at the one you wish you knew.
Man I'm in almost the same situation, I can really relate to you here. In my situation I told her that I had feelings for her and just got the I wanna stay friends for now answer. Now that, to me, left doors open for later but told me not quite yet. That was a while ago. Now I've gotten answers like I'm not sure if I feel that way any more and, I'm afraid of what can happen to our friendship. I think that you need to try to become as close as you can, without being stalker like, and then when you feel the time is right tell her exactly how you feel and try to get an answer that same day or let her think it over. And as advice try not to accept the I don't know answers. =] hope this helps ya out.
i have crushed on my guy for 4+ months.we did chat online(msn) almost everyday.recently we quarreled.but we peace within 1 day.he said that he don't...
View Answers
So I've done some searching and see that this situation happens a lot with people. A lot of the answers I have looked at seem to be a mixed bag of...
View Answers
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date... I'm always up for something simple. He would pick me up and we would go and volunteer at the homeless shelter or at a church in the kitchen for the homeless, after that we would then take a walk in the park to get to know each other more.. so by that time of nonstop getting to know one another the date is over.. he takes me home, we hug and possibly a kiss on the cheek!
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date well know how I react to different people, what music I like, how I want to help people, what makes me hyper, how I sometimes snort when I laugh, how I'm very shy at first but very open minded about everything. He would know I don't judge people and that I'm just myself :)
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
