Ok so I'm dating someone, but there's this other guy that says he's in love with me, another guy that wants me cause he says he likes models (even though I'm not one, which confuses me), and the fourth guy lives on the other side of the United States that keeps talking to me and wants to marry me. HELP! How do I get out of this mess when all four of them call me every night?!? I just want to stay with my boyfriend and remain friends with the other three.
Update: Sorry I didn't add yes I personally met all of them, online dating is an ultimate evil, the one that lives in another state I met on a cruise.
3 months ago
There really is no EASY way out of this. If you continue to talk to them, in a more than friend fashion there will be major flares going up with your current boyfriend. Most guys really want a woman to know that she is his and the he is yours, no interference. So you really either need to tell these guys to bugg off, or you really don't want to be that special person to them because you already have a boyfriend, and that plainly you just want to be friends, and if you say that you just want to be friends, if they're just looking for your body they'll probably leave you alone. So to save some pain for your boyfriend (Unless you want to be with one of those guys) just tell them plain out how you feel, and don't purposely hide it from your boyfriend he might notice somethings up =)
- I don't mean to be harsh, I've just been in this situation before and just want to help =)), hope I have =)
Are these guys that you all personally know, or did you talk to them online or something? (Because you mentioned one live in another state). Anyways, since you seem to want to stay with your boyfriend, just tell the other guys the truth. It's better than stringing them along.
Evidently they are all interested in being more than just friends with you. Tell them that unless they want to be just friends, you cannot talk to them anymore. Also, for future reference, if you put yourself out there on websites, you will definitely continue to attract other guys who will be interested in you. Unless you are secretly interested in finding out if there's a better guy out there for you than your current boyfriend, I would suggest not talking to guys on websites because they are mostly out to hook up, and if you even talk to a lot of them, they will get the idea that you are interested. That is my personal opinion. Of course, if you are secretly trying to upgrade, then continue shopping! Good luck!
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would want to go were the guy would want to go, that way I could get a good vibe of his hobbies and what he likes to do on his spare time. we would talk about interest and each other hobbies, I'm a humorous kind of person so the conversation wouldn't be dull. i would probally dress in a nice shirt and some jeans nothing to casual but nothing so upscale.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
What type of personality and my interest, he would also see my funny side.
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