I love this guy we took a break cause he cheated. Durin the break he meet someone they started havin sex. I finally told him he had to stop he did for a bit things are going well yesterday we got a in huge fight he said he was going to continue sleeping with her again I don't know what to do anymore I love him don't know what to do anymore. My heart is broken I am crushed and I am so sad and depressed I love him I don't know if it worth it anymore
Update: Did I tell you we dated over 5 years. The last year has been a break
3 months ago
Update: Thanks for the input I am in so much pain I am drinkin a bit tonite
3 months ago
I Know this is gonna sound really blunt, but forget him! You don't need to be the second girl! & if he's sleeping with someone then he dusent love you AT ALL! Just drop him completely, because he's not going to drop the other girl! I know its hard! But you don't need all that drama.
It's NOT worth it. You cannot make someone love you. You deserve to be in love with someone that also loves you back. This guy obviously doesn't care for you as much as you care for him. Or he wouldn't even entertain the idea of sleeping with another woman.
Men who care about their women won't do things to deliberately hurt her.
It will be tough but you should let him go. Afterall, how will you ever meet mr. Right if mr. Wrong is in the way?
The addition to your question doesn't change anything in my opinion. Sadly. - 3 months ago
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Thanks for your input I just want to make him happy cause I do love him I don't know what to do anymore thanks for your advice - 3 months ago
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I understand wanting to make him happy but making the other happy SHOULD be a TWO-WAY street. If it's not, then that's not healthy. Best of luck to you. And I'm very sorry for your pain. It will fade and you'll be happier knowing that you've opened up the door for mr. Right to walk through it! - 3 months ago
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I know I should leave him I am willing to try and make it work I know he loves me. his parent don't even know we are on a break. he takes me to stuff still his family stuff he still talks about our anniversary and we did spend valentine day together. I just want him to be loyal - 3 months ago
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me again. he's been acting weird & I know he lies to me about most things & talking to his ex who he cheated on me...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First, a little spontaneity I would ask my date to meet me somewhere -- A museum, or park, some place in which casual conversation could be backed by something visual stimulating. A nice dress shirt, something not just a "button down", jeans and either nice shoes, or matching casual sneakers The date should end with each of us wanting to know more about each other. Unless...
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That there is more to find out... no, lol --> An introduction to my lifestyle, what I am currently doing and how I spend my free time. Maybe introduce something that I've been thinking about, so that next time, there can be a follow-up to it. Of course I would make sure she knows about my hobbies, and maybe one fun fact, like my celebrity relative or my 5-minutes of fame.
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When: 3 months ago
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