My girlfriend had her ex over once, and this bugged me so I talked to her about it.
She is always depressed and hides this under a shell of hyperactivity.
My girlfriend likes to go to parties, drinks, smokes (i don't like this)
My biggest fear was that she would cheat on me.
Later in our relationship we dispute about her having her ex over, and she tell me that I don't trust her that she didn't do anything and so I believe her.
Today we had our 3rd dispute, she then finally tells me that in her previous relationships she has cheated on her boyfriends.
This really bugs me, I know there is a high chance of her cheating on me and I would hate that, I don't want to break up with her because I love her.
Tonight I left her thinking and now she is almost to a nervous breakdown, either because I don't trust her or because she thinks I'm going to brake up with her.
She got mad after the 4 time I asked her if she would brake up with me.
I feel like I'm pushing her away. And I don't know if she's scared that I will leave her because of thins. She seems serious about our relationship and all but I'm scared of her going to a party without me one day and ending up doing it because she got drunk.
I might forget her once is she made out with another guy but not if she had sex with anyone.
I hate being in this situation.
Because she thinks I don't trust her, when she truly knows she can't be trusted and so she is scared I will break up with her.
Do you guys or girls think that maybe she can be loyal, she does say she loves me and that she would never do that to me,
help!
Update: When I said she likes to go to parties, I don't mean regularly this is like in special occasions. and that is rarely.
6 months ago
Its a hard situation. I have been cheated on when my guy went to a club and was wasted and had sex with the girl it hurt so bad I have forgive him and we are trying to work things out but I don't trust him. I know he loves me he isn't really loyal even when he on the break. Bottom line being cheated on sucks be careful maybe she learned from her mistakes
I just want her to make sure to invite me if she is going to a party, I wouldn't be drinking because I don't drink(I'm good) and I would keep an eye on her while she has fun getting drunk. - 6 months ago
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