Please please help me iv been with my boyfriend for 8 months ow and I saw a picture on ebo yesterday of him snogging a girl on night out when we had been going out for a month. He did not deny it and apologized,he swore she was the only one I love him so much, can't bear to be without him, what do I do, and how can I stop worrying about him doing it again? Please I'm so paranoid
You can NEVER stop a guy if this is what he wants no matter how much you profess your love to him. That will just let him know you are definitely where he wants you. You must develop some dating skills and its easy. First don't be so needy. Its very unattractive to a guy to have a clingy needy call too much girl. Yuk. Further this idea by not being too accessible to him. Always there when he calls. Always going where he wants to go and etc. Hang out with your girlfriends more. Look at other guys and practice flirting to build your confidence. The idea is to make your time with him or anyone else a treat. I love ice cream lots but if its on the table everyday I want something else. I'm saying to put him in the same state of mind he has you in. Respect yourself and he + everyone else will too. I learned this from a very sexy girl in my 20s who managed to turn the tables on me(imagine that). She made me respect her and that was something for me because I had traveled the world and had many girlfriends. She wanted to be the only one and had a plan. What a remarkable woman.
I mean this message is very needy but its how I feel, I didn't come across as that you see, I just hate being confused, and just wanna know if it would be a big deal 4 you? - 3 months ago
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