We had always been talking about guys cheating on the girls, but mind if I turn this situation around? Guys has always been known as the cheater in the relationship, because majority of guys want to conquer, they like to win, and they are more ambitious when it comes to wanting to "accomplish". However, there are guys who are seeking for true love, someone who can be by their side, and just someone for them to love and expect to be loved back, but there is another group who are just seeking for the physical satisfaction in life. There are various reasons why guys cheat or need to cheat, and I think I can go on all day coming up with reasons, but I want to mention one of the many reason and that is. They were cheated on first. I know there are other reasons and perhaps even more reasons than a book of 1000 pages can cover, but I want to focus on this reason, because I am curious. It is probably clear that most of the time, guys pay for the expenses when going on a date (most of the time), and thus guys has always been striving to earn more fortune. However, when a guy can meet the girls expectation, and she finds someone better, they get cheated on. Or a better word, they are replaced. (Don't get me wrong, I am just stating one side of this situation, because sometimes money isn't everything). What if we don't talk just about money, what about time? Since guys need to spend time earning money, they lack quality time with the one he loves, but for this reason, the girl who needs love/someone by their side when they need it, they start looking for someone else to satisfy them. Clearly for any individual, after you get cheated on or dumped, your mind thinks differently. For decades now, guys has always been known as the cheater, because they only care about the physical part in a relationship. True, but not completely true, some guys need love too, but we are just more attracted to the physical of someone's attributes, and girls look for looks, but more importantly the personality of a guy? True? Correct me if I am wrong. Thus, if a guys is not by their girl's side all the time, are their girls who can not control themselves, and seek for other physical or emotional satisfication to meet their needs? Do girls even love it when their guys are always up their ass, asking what they are doing every minute of their life, and caring "TOO' much? If we let her enjoy herself with her friends (Clubbing or Salsa Dancing), care less, and give them ample space in life, would they think they aren't cared enough, and seek for "existence of another physical protection" from another guy, perhaps? So, where is the cut, does it vary among girls? What are the different limits, and what are the number one reason girls cheat for? Is it really for the physical or the emotional? If you can't see your girlfriend for a prolonged period of time, but call her at least once ever two days to show that you care, would she still cheat, is it not enough? Signs of her cheating?
You bring up excellent points, however I believe that now girls and guys cheat equally. I don't agree with the point about money though because girls can be just as economic independent as guys, so I don't think this is a valid reason for cheating (at least for those that don't care about money). Quality time is definitely a factor; the attention or the lack thereof can influence a person (guys as well as girls). I admit it is hard to find a perfect relationship, but if you're happy in it you are less likely to stray. Ultimately, both sexes are looking for happiness and sometimes they may become misguided and confuse lust for love.
I agree, women usually think in future tense while men think in present, I was cheated on because my ex met this guy that was 'better looking' and had rich parents, so basically she traded me in for a newer model. When it comes to relationships women are more impulsive and think in terms of cost/benefit analysis. If they meet someone who is better than you and there is little consequence, it is possible that they will cheat. Now don't get me wrong, men do this too, but it's usually due to shallowness or promiscuity, women think in terms of usefulness. That's how you get 20 year old women dating much older men, a woman can kill an emotional attachment when advancement is involved. Ironically my ex broke up with the guy and she hasn't talked to me since because she knows she ruined any chance with me.
Why is it that all I can find are girls that cheat. I always get my guy friends coming up to me and telling me that they have a friend going out with...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be a walk along the beach in California. I would wear a sexy bikini (like in my pic). If I liked you, the date would end, well I don't have to say (let's just say you'd be pleasured in every way possible. If I wasn't fond of you, I would give you a simple peck on the cheek.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date will know that I'm funny, outgoing, sexy, and a little crazy. If I liked the date they would also know I'm good in bed.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 3 months ago
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