I found my boyfriend on a internet dating site. I confronted him about it and he's said "I've been on this site for 6 years"
He's tried to assured me that he was just checking mail and that he wasn't looking to meet up with anyone. I believe him on this because he works with my roommate (Gets a ride to work, works in a truck with him all day and then comes home).
I guess I just don't believe he won't cheat on me (even though he has no time). I'm not looking for the "break up with him" type of answers, just how do I get past it and trust him?
Update: I told him to delete his profile when I had found it. I asked him again about it last night and he showed me (it said the date) that it had been removed (May 13th)
4 months ago
Learn as much as you can about him and his past relationships and ads, as previously mentioned. The best choice is an informed one. As for trusting him, that's something more about you than him. Trust comes from within ourselves so you have battle your reason and feelings to trust him, or find why you don't and fix that. Only you can know how to trust another person.
I personally don't trust very many people because of how many times I've been wronged, but that's just me. Only you can decide how and what to do. Good luck!
I'd personally ask to see his profile and find out exactly what he was advertising and what it says he is looking for. *I* wouldn't feel comfortable if my significant other were still frequenting a dating site as it would make me feel as if he were just waiting for something better to come along. However, I'm a very firm proponent of trusting someone until they give me a solid reason not to.
This has burned me plenty of times but I really try my best to see the good in everyone. If he has been loyal and good to you then I would say to trust him. If you guys plan on getting serious though I would ask him to close his account on that dating site as it will always be something that will dwell in the back of your mind.
Well do the best friend test 1week leave him and your bff alone at the house and in one week if they are play fighting and doing what you and him usually do then no he is a cheater and cheaters make time to cheat even when at work or out of town
Time takes care of the trust factor. But the fact that he was still on the dating site. Will not help you overcome your trust issues. You need to be honest with him and ask him to leave the site. So you can build on trusting him and having faith he will not cheat on you. If he quits the site no questions asked then that will give you a little more confidence ( reassurance) in the relationship and you will be able to build a little more trust. Remember trust IS EARNED.
That's weird if you guys are at all serious about each other. It doesn't matter if he's been on there forever, he shouldn't be on there if he's happy with what he has.
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