I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and half, and we have been living together for a year this summer. Everything has been great, and we haven't been shy about making long term plans together. Not really marriage plans, although it was mentioned, we both agree it's too soon, and he was the one to bring that up not me (I know better). He says he has had a dream about asking me to marry him recently. Lately however, he keeps bringing up the 'what-ifs' in weird ways. Like that he doesn't want to buy a blueray DVD cause I have the blueray player and if something happens he won't be able to watch it? Very weird to me. He has always been more hinting about our future together not apart. His behavior is unchanged though, besides him getting this weird look in his eye once in a while that's hard to describe. So I don't know if he got freaked out or what exactly is going through his mind, but he always seems surprised when I would ask him if something was up. Is it just a phase or should I be more worried about him? Not sure what to think. Any ideas?
Honestly, you being closer to the situation, you would have a better idea than anyone on here, but I would have to suggest listening to your gut. Sometimes you can unconsciously pick up hints through body language and tone that you might not be fully aware of. When living with someone, you can be aware of certain behavioral patterns, nuances, as well as emotional well being instinctively - trust yourself. But don't get too paranoid - it might be something that he isn't ready to share with you, or have anything to do with you period. Pestering him won't get you the answers you want, sometimes you just have to be patient. Let him come to you if he has a problem.
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