I have been best friends with a girl that I am in love with. She says she won't go out with me because she thinks that if we break up, we won't be friends anymore. How can I convince her to just take a chance?
I was in a similar situation and my best guy friend told me he wanted to be more than friends and it threw me off at first but he told me that when two people are as good friends as we are that nothing will change it. And he also told me that since we know each other so well that we will know if it isn't working and we will be able to be more honest with each other. I think he made some good points and we went out but it turned out we were better as best friends and the good thing was we ended the boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship before we ended up mad. We are now still the best of friends I think that people who wait too long to be honest with the person they are in a relationship with end up on bad terms but friends can really be honest from the beginning and it never has to get to that point.
Even if you two break up, you'll be friends because you were friends to begin with, rite? So why not take things to the next level and become something more beautiful <3
lorli-august
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Amen to rosy, I've been in that situation many a time and have actually used that very statement to let him down easy. Because that's what would happen, eventually.
rosynante
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
I think that if she liked you like that, she would take the chance. Unfortunately I think that she only likes you as a friend and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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