Should I do, give him space and wait till he calls me?

Give him a deadline, behavior like this is inexcusable in a serious relationship and even if he does still like you, he's acting like a complete asshole.

This is from my own experience. Back up and DON'T CALL HIM. If he really has feelings for you, you'll hear from him. The six month marker, hmmm. He's probably testing ground to see if you're going to trip on him having a personal life outside of your relationship. I've been there where my guy spent time with friends before me and I realized later that I have to fill the void in my life with things that make ME happy, not fill it with only him. He wants to know that he can still have friends and go out and not have you calling and wondering where he is all the time. Men love independent women. So, show that you are by not calling. When he's ready, he'll call. I PROMISE! Don't bug him though. I know, we move a little different than men. But, trust me on this. He'll come around if there's really a connection.

Well girl I'm in the same spot as you but I think we should give then time I know they work hard and stuff they need some time too.

I think he is avoiding you and coming up with excuses to ignore you and am very sorry to hear what he is doing to you but I think you should move on and forget him because when guys start acting like that they are most likely hiding something and and some of the time they are talking to another girl..

First of all you done give him a deadline or any type of ultimatum.!

You young people today do not allow each other space/time. You suffocate one another with phone calls; text messages and emails.! Did you put yourself in his shoes? Did it occur to you that he is working and would like a night out with his friends? Why not? I understand that you miss him and enjoy being with him. But it isn't all about you. You young people suffer from the Me. Ism disease. Listen when a guy or a girl starts to call less; see you less it is never really about the job. It because he is re-thinking whether or not he want to be in a full time relationship. The fact that he slept out the other night is not a good sign. Either. I wouldn't call or text him again. Let him make the next move. It seems to me you have left enough messages.!

If and when you do talk to him just be yourself and be honest. But try to make it about him and not you. I would say something like. How are you, so are you adjusting to working nights, it so nice to hear your voice, I have missed your company, call me when you have some time to go hang out. Get off the phone you end the call. And see what happens. I wouldn't bring up the relationship, why he hasn't called, is there another girl or why he went out with his friend and not you. Try to be the mature one. Besides I am 42 and I have a lot of experience with this type of behavior. Honey trust me it will work.!

You should just be honest with him-try and arrange a time to see him when you can both talk. Make notes on what you want to say to him before you see him so you don't end up sounding needy or irrational. My boyfriend and I have always had very different schedules and he also has a son from a past marriage so sometimes its very hard to get time together but at the end of the day we always do. Even if its only a text to each other once a day-we still communicate. Its hard but you will have to accept that he may not be able to see you as much as you want-my boyfriend recently started working more hours so we do see less of each other-rather than feeling bad about this I use the time to catch up with my friends, go shopping, to the beautician, studying and generally being girlie. I appreciate my time with him more than ever because it is more limited. However it may be that he is unsure of your relationship-and I know this is probably hard to hear but you should just confront him and ask him. You can't resent him for spending time with his friends-its not healthy to spend all your free time with one person. At the end of the day you both have too want to make a relationship work and I'm sorry but it doesn't really sound promising if you haven't spoken in 5 days-just be honest with each other and if its meant to be you'll find a way to make it work. Good luck!