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She talks to me all the time on the phone but acts so different in person?

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ConfusedAndInLove01 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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So the girl I like calls me all the time and we talk forever, but when we talk in person she seems like she really doesn't want to talk to me that much. I like her a lot and she likes me, I just don't understand y she acts differently in person.

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girly-girl (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
She's nervous when she's with you. This happens to me only when I'm really interested in a guy, so... I suppose she's interested in you :) Good luck :) Actually I'm pretty sure she likes you a lot - otherwise she wouldn't be calling you :)
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Question Asker Thank u, glad to hear that from a female and I am almost positive she digs me - 3 months ago

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beauty749 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
This girl likes you but she seems a bit shy, she prob has a lot to say to you in person but some girls don't want to sound stupid or are intimidated by guys they like so they speak less, I know this because I am the same way some times. You should do something to make her feel a little more comfortable in person, nothing over the top but to just show her that you like her and are interested and wants her to talk. I think she is honestly shy and intimidated perhaps. I hope this helps.
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Question Asker It did help, I think you're right and she is just shy in person, thanx - 3 months ago

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Nolaaaa (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
She might be shy face to face. If I was you id mention it. Give her time, I'm sure she'll come around. X
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Question Asker I think I will mention it - 3 months ago

 
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She's shy. Try to put her at her ease, and try to talk to her on her own rather than in front of lots of other people. It's a good sign - she wants to make a good impression on you and is scared that she won't.

Good luck!
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Question Asker I usually do try to put her at ease by doing something stupid but entertaining lol, but ya it'll all work out , thanx - 3 months ago
 

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FZRichTSIAWD (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Maybe she's nervous. You're main goal should be to get the same conversations that you have on the phone in person. She might be slightly insecure about her appearance or a number of other things. Just be open with her and continue to show your interest and she'll open up in person too
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Question Asker I do bring up the similar things in person, I think she jus needs a little time but thanx - 3 months ago

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Hercules (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
It's most likely she's able to act like her true self over the phone because she isn't being influences by peer pressure.

When she's outside near other people she's being influenced by tribal mentality and begins to treat you differently to fit in.

This is possible but I don't know enough about the situation to be 100% sure.
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Question Asker Good point and thanx - 3 months ago
Answerer Also, what the other women who posted said, if she's calling you so much she probably likes you, she's just nervous and is watching how she's acting in front of you.

Try and take her out somewhere where she can be herself, invite her to your room, somewhere you can be ALONE, that way she can feel safe and act how she wants. - 3 months ago
 
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