I have known this guy for 8 1/2 months. We are only friends. We do not hug or kiss. We do things together like watch movies, go to the races, have dinner or he comes over for dinner. He is 47 and I turn 40 next month. Whenever he asks me out to eat, to the movies or races, he insists on paying, he has been doing this from the day we met. He never lets me pay and when he does, it is only leaving the tip. Lately he has been bumping his leg into me while we are sitting next together and keeping it there and has been asking me to do things more than our usual once a week thing. I am open to a relationship with him. We have discussed it in the past (back in Dec) and at that time he said that he thought it was best that we are just friends right now. Why would a guy who says we are just friends do these things? Does he want more? If you think he does, how can I let him know that I like him more than a friend and would like a relationship with him?
It sounds to me like he likes you, maybe he's a little shy about relation's, but if he is bumping and other little things like that he is interested maybe you could tease him back a little, that will help brake some ice. Talk to him maybe he's ready for a little more then best friends. Again play back.
I think the best thing you could do is start initiating things and playing along with him whenever he starts the knee-knocking type stuff. Start hugging or pecking him on the cheek or squeezing his hand, and have inviting eye contact. Eventually the moment will be right and you will naturally kiss :)
Wow I could have wrote this question myself and I have asked male friends basically the same thing you are here. It is obvious this man is into you more then friends. Just make sure he is not looking for a friend with benefits, unless you are OK with that. He could also be scared of how you will react and of you rejecting him if he crosses the line from friendship. So flirt with him. Don't make a move but let him know with out touching him that it would be OK for him to kiss you. See if you feel anything and take it from there.
No, he doesn't just want friends with benefits, that I do know. I know he is kinda shy, but not as shy as I am. How do I flirt with him and let him know it would be ok to kiss me. I jokingly said to him this past friday coming back from the races that he never hugs me. I told him that friends hug. No hug fri and no hug on sat. Night when we went out and sunday morning after he dropped me off after we went out for breakfast. It would be akward for me to hug him, he is 6'1" and I am only 5'5" - 6 months ago
I think since it was so long ago, he probably changed his mind, so yes, I think he likes you now. as far as the talking goes, I would just straight up ask him. Its always best to skip the build up so he does not set nervous or something.
NOOOOO Don't ask him unless you want to risk losing this man as your friend. It may just get weird. Some times it's best to let things just go naturally. Give it time - 6 months ago
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